Kisses From the Father

Reflection & Eternity

2009-08-21T11:54:00.005-04:00

Our life is a busy one. We may not be as busy as the next person, but we do seem to like going all.of.the.time...after all, it's just what we do. We plan for the next function, the next big thing, the next party, the next goal to be accomplished...

Sometimes it seems our planning is in vain. How plans over exciting things take up much of our thoughts and visions - and so much of our time. It's a joy to plan for fun things in life. But, what takes weeks and/or months of planning, always seems to be over just as soon as it began.

You know how I feel right? You've thought that before haven't you? Look at a wedding for example...months and months and months and money and money and money that has gone into preparation for it...flies by so quickly that you never even had time to soak it in.

Having a baby...planning on when to conceive, then dreaming of when you'll be pregnant, then being pregnant and planning on well everything that comes with it...what will you name her or him? What will the nursery decor be? What kind of delivery? Which doctor for you, hospital, pediatrician, etc.? Your new angel is finally in your arms and before you know it, you wake up and realize they are starting Pre-K, kindergarten, high school, bringing their first love home to meet you. The list goes on.

Oh how you wish you can slow the clock down and just soak up and remember all the details of this precious thing called life.

After all, God has given us this sweet life and He fully expects and wants us to enjoy it to the fullest.

But, as I'm reflecting today, I'm reminded of the planning - the eternal planning that I have so much opportunity to do - yet I continue to focus on the things that must seem or be more important to me. Not that planning on and raising my child is unimportant in the least! That is my job as a parent...and as the parent of the next child I am believing the Lord for right now. :)

I realize though what I am teaching E. What freedom and opportunity I have to teach her the process of that eternal planning. What we are here for...as children of God.

~ To know Him and make Him known. ~

Am I growing in Him DAILY? Am I soaking up every WORD He speaks to my heart? Am I operating in every GIFT He has placed within me? Am I using my FAITH to move mountains in my life? Am I "letting His little LIGHT shine" in me constantly so that others will see the Christ that I serve and want Him for themselves as well?

How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow?

Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone.

James 4:14 NLT

You see, our lives are but a vapor. Tomorrow, they will be gone...whenever our tomorrow is. Not saying that the planning we do in raising our children or planning for events in our lives are not important. But, my job on this earth is to know Him and make Him known. My relationship with Christ should be what keeps me awake, too excited to sleep at night. The thoughts that constantly fill my mind and abide my time should be of my Father. Where will He lead me next? What gifts will He show me tomorrow? Who will He place in my path next to tell of His love and salvation?

Our time here is temporary and the things I plan so hard for and lay awake with visions of at night will fly by so quickly. But, as long as I am in the process of eternal planning, my time with Him has just begun. (and will never EVER end.)

WHAT ARE YOUR ETERNAL PLANS?

Are you planning for eternity?

Wordless Wednesday

2009-08-19T14:19:00.002-04:00

How old is this child? Oh my...

Are you singing?

2009-08-17T14:11:00.002-04:00

The Bible says, "He inhabits the praises of His people." Let's praise Him for all the good things in our lives. "Every good and perfect gift comes down from the Father of lights..." "In everything, give THANKS!"

Are you singing?

I am waiting on answer to prayer ... but I am singing.

I have been betrayed here and there...we all have ... but I am singing.

I am ready to go home to my Father ... and I am SINGING!

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I would be overjoyed for you to leave a comment of your reasons for singing today.

K-4 ~ Where does time go?

2009-08-10T14:56:00.004-04:00

Here is my punkin' heading out the door for her first day of K-4!

She was so excited and gave me a big thumbs up!

We were about to walk into her class and this was a look like, "Alright, mommy! Just one more!"

She did so good! It was familiar to her this year since she went there last year for K-3. She walked in, gave me a hug and a kiss and walked to her friends to play. I felt bad for feeling like she should have cried. :(

Growing up is hard on mommies.

Surveyhead Surveys

2009-06-23T15:23:00.002-04:00

So I read a while back on someone else's blog about Surveyhead and looked into it. I know that there are a lot of survey sites out there that are a complete and total waste of time. They usually make you fill out endless forms signing up for offers and/or you take a survey only to find out they enter you into a drawing for something...I wouldn't waste my time!

This lady in particular posted proof of all of her payments from Surveyhead, as well as some other "legit" sites.

I decided to try and thought I had nothing to lose...right? This has been the only one that I've continually received money for and while you certainly won't make enough to break the bank...it does add up for a little spending money.

So today, I received my first payment from them in the amount of $28.70. When you go on the site and create a profile, you will fill out several forms that tells them about you and you will receive surveys daily to fill out. While you won't qualify for all of them, beside the survey it will have a percentage next to it that will give you an idea of how close you come to qualifying to take that particular survey. It will also tell you how long the survey should take and how much you earn for said survey.

Most surveys are for $1.00 each and take about 5-10 minutes on average...depends on how fast you are really. I know you are thinking you don't want to spend 10 minutes just to earn a dollar right? But it does add up!

You do have to have at least $25.00 in your Surveyhead account in order to cashout and after you take the survey, it will show "pending" for quite some time because they have to be reviewed.

The thing that helped me is that I got an email invitation to participate in an ongoing television survey, earning $10.00. I had to watch Entertainment Tonight for several shows and answer questions about those shows. Easy as pie...I like to watch the show anyway! Why not earn a bit for watching?!! :)

You will need a PayPal account to do this so they can deposit your money there. It is free to set up a PayPal account. I would also suggest that you create a separate (free) email for your survey account.

If you have any questions about this, just let me know. I don't receive any money for sharing this with you...BUMMER! :)...but I thought I'd spread the wealth...HAHA...

Now, what to spend my $28.70 on? Hmmm............

Happy Birthday Butterfly

2009-06-10T06:00:00.000-04:00

From this... To this...

So quickly!

Wings

If I could, I would give you wings

to lift you way up in the air,

And you could find the rainbow's end,

because wings would get you there.

If I could, I would give you wings

to carry you out of the storm.

They would take you higher than the wind,

and you would be safe and warm.

Wings, little wings,

in the wink of an eye

Soon your little wings will be big enough to fly.

If I could, I would give you wings

to lighten your heart through the years.

They would flutter soft around you then

and dry up all your tears.

Wings, little wings

in the wink of an eye.

Soon your little wings will be big enough to fly.

I tucked you in last night with tears running down my cheeks. Some would think I'm silly, but you are turning 4 today. This is a big deal to me. You are now leaving "toddler-hood" and moving into the next stage of your sweet life. The 1's, 2's and 3's we will never get back. We only have those memories, but I embrace the joys, tears, frustration (smile) and everything else that comes with the future years. You will always be my baby, but you are now my little girl.

You, my sweet E, bring joy like none we've ever known! The responsibility to parent you is overwhelming so often...in that I know you don't truly belong to us. You are God's child and He loaned you to us while we are on this earth. He trusted me as your mother and daddy as your father. We are not and never will be the perfect parents, but we strive every day to please Him as we "raise you up in the way you should go."

I know that as we seek His direction, you will indeed fulfill the dreams that fill your little mind through the years. You will grow from the little precious caterpillar that curls up in my lap each night for prayer into the colorful butterfly that lives in the perfect will of God!

Lord, help us as the parents of this angel to never damage or hold her wings back. Equip us to do everything we can in this upcoming year and every one thereafter to prepare those wings to fly.

Happy Birthday E! Mommy and Daddy love you sweet baby girl.

Swimming and Sliding...

2009-06-08T22:56:00.009-04:00

...into a new chapter of life.

It is summer and we are right smack in the middle of swim lessons again. It's so fun for me and neat watching how much she grows in this from year to year. This will probably be our last year taking them...but, then again who knows because she does so well with them. We didn't have to take them again this year, but I feel better now that she will be 4 this week (oh my!!) and can listen to the instructions of her teacher much more attentively. She's like a lil fishy!

She is in the class with another one of her church friends and you should have seen them on the first day! Screaming all over again! The second day, I had to chase her down as she was running for the gate and begging to go home and take a nap...anything to make us leave haha. But 5 minutes later, she realized this was not so bad after all. Third day into it, there wasn't even a whimper out of either of them. Not one tear since and today was day number 5. Infact, she loves the deep end...she has mastered the diving board and even went down the slide into the deep end. That is a little unnerving for me because she is so teeny tiny and gravity takes its' tole on her little body as she flies down the slide so fast. She almost appears to be taking flight and well...I don't encourage the slide myself, but it's all good! :)

Speaking of slides...We had her 4th birthday party LUAU this weekend and it was a BLAST! We set up this huge water slide in the backyard and the kids loved it. Honestly, I think the cake was no big deal in comparison. We asked E what her favorite thing was and it was most definitely the slide. Smart kid! The new toys/gifts went home with her, but the slide was only temporary.

Okay so daddy had some fun on it too! :)

The big 4th birthday is not actually until Wednesday so I am soaking up every single minute of what is left of the 3's. I cannot believe what a hard time we are having about her turning 4. At 4 years of age, they aren't considered "toddlers" anymore so we are closing one chapter yet again and moving on to another. I just can't get over how fast it does go by.

My baby... will always be... my baby!

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The picture above is the coffee that I got from Boca Java for ONLY $4.95 + FREE shipping! Can you believe this? That is a lot of coffee and good size bags too! Click on the link to read my post about it. I ordered the Boca Sunrise (2), Caramel Kiss Island & Vacation Villa Vanilla...and I cannot wait to try them. The bags smell amazing.

The Battle is the Lord's

2009-06-04T10:24:00.002-04:00

One day a soldier, charged with fleeing from the enemy was brought before Alexander the Great. Alexander the Great asked him, "What's your name?" Dropping his head, he replied, "Alexander." Alexander the Great grabbed him by the shoulders and said, "Soldier, change your conduct or change your name!" You have been called to live a life worthy of the One whose name you carry. Regardless of whether the giant you face is addiction, resentment, fear, lust, pride, envy or anger, you must realize:

(1) You're not unique. Your temptations "are no different from what others experience" (1 Col 10:13, NLT). Goliath wasn't always a giant; he was fed and nurtured until he became one. Our giants are usually little sins we overlok and indulge until they assume a life of their own and come back to haunt us.

(2) You can't do it alone. Your giant will defeat you anytime you tackle him in your own strength. David told Goliath, "This is the Lord's battle, and he will give you to us" (1 Sam 17:47, NLT). You need divine help to overcome old habits and establish new behaviors. So, declare with Paul, "Christ...gives me strength" (Phil 4:13, NLT).

(3) You must confront your giant head-on. The Bible says: "As Goliath moved closer to attack, David quickly ran...to meet him" (1 Sam 17:48, NLT). Don't run away, don't try to negotiate, don't compromise and don't excuse! Force your giant out into the light and don't let him back into your life. Establish boundaries and make yourself accountable. Stay out of the wrong company!

Above all, don't look at God in the light of your giant. Look at your giant in the light of God!

~ Word for You Today

Boca Java Baby

2009-05-26T15:26:00.003-04:00

So, most of you have heard of or tried Gevalia coffee before right? I found this information on another blog that I visit frequently and I'm excited about it.

Boca Java coffee...You can order (for a limited time) 4 bags of coffee ...your choice... plus FREE shipping for just $4.95! Hurry and order! I just set a reminder on my cell phone for about 3 weeks down the road to cancel my membership - if I want to. There are no obligations whatsoever after you receive your 4 bags!

I ordered myself the Boca Sunrise (2 bags), Caramel Kiss Island & Vacation Villa Vanilla.

You can hardly get 1 good bag of coffee for $4.95, much less 4 bags! Oh Oh and it is not roasted and bagged until you order! Fresh coffee...Yumm-O! :)

Forget Geico...I've got CVS

2009-05-19T14:17:00.003-04:00

Man, I love this store. I love any store really because I love shopping. But, I love saving money all the more...

After all, "A penny saved is a penny earned." ~ at least that's what Ben Franklin thought!

In this morning's case, it was more than pennies saved...I had a great trip to CVS! Thought I'd take a minute to share.

This couponing stuff is certainly no waste of time. It works people!

I got a $10 tube of Cover Girl Lipcolor, 2 bottles of Dry Idea Deodarant ($5.29 each) and a honey bun...because I was hungry :)...

...for $7.06 - then I got $5 ECB back (Easy Care Bucks) on my purchases for a grand total spent of $2.06.

CVS also has their Right Guard deodarant on sale so I will be using $3 ECB on that, making that a FREE purchase! Then, I will get $2 more in ECB back on that purchase.

Who wouldn't be excited about this? About $28 of stuff for $2.06!

Tell me what ya think! Go here for tips and to find out how!

Our Thinking...His Promises

2009-05-14T15:56:00.004-04:00

Our Thinking / His Promise...

It's impossible. / All things are possible. Luke 18:27

I'm too tired. / I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28-30

Nobody really loves me. / I love you. John 3:16

I can't go on. / My grace is sufficient. 2 Corinthians 12:9

I can't figure things out. / I will direct your steps. Proverbs 20:24

I can't do it. / You can do all things. Philippians 4:13

I'm not able. / I am able. 2 Corinthians 9:8

It's not worth it. / It will be worth it. Romans 8:28

I can't forgive myself. / I forgive you. 1 John 1:9, Romans 8:1

I can't manage. / I will supply all your need. Philippians 4:19

I'm afraid. / I have not given you a spirit of fear. 2 Timothy 1:7

I'm always worried and frustrated. / Cast all your care on Me. 1 Peter 5:7

I don't have enough faith. / I've given everyone a measure of faith. Romans 12:8

I'm not smart enough. / I give you wisdom. 1 Corinthians 1:30

I feel so alone. / I will never leave you or forsake you. Hebrews 13:5

Sweet Pea - and it smells gooood!

2009-05-11T16:03:00.004-04:00

Check out this month's Candle of the Month... Sweet Pea!

The fragrance of this flower will take you to times past. Sweet Pea is a delicate and sweet floral, sure to become a favorite.

If you would like to request a sample of this scent, just leave a comment on this post. If you'd like to try this scent or any of our other products, just go here. You can also shop from my online shop.

Big Problem, Bigger God

2009-04-29T15:21:00.005-04:00

Watch this video and then read below!

This is SO precious! If you are an animal lover, you are probably thinking that you can't handle this video. I was feeling a bit apprehensive over watching it through and I am so glad I did!

First of all, whoever added the sound effects to this...the little bear panting and all...did a great job. I kept thinking that the bear was gonna start talking any minute.

If you take a moment to view this story/situation in a spiritual manner, it will excite you! Was it not the cutest thing when the bear began to growl and 'holler' (for lack of a better word) at the cougar and he got more and more confident the further the cougar moved away? - He was feeling tough at that moment and thought it was him that was scaring the lion.

Little did he know, the cougar was seeing something much more big in the background...he saw that Mama Bear (assuming it was Mama) had come to the rescue.

Isn't that how it is with us? We get in a situation that we struggle to get out of, but we just haven't found the way of escape yet. Every road we take seems to lead us right back to that same problem. We think we are doing okay and then look up only to see ___________ (you fill in the blank) staring us right in the face - jaws open and ready to attack.

Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. ~ 1 Peter 5:8, NLT

But...just when we've reached the end of our rope and have nowhere else to turn, our Heavenly Father shows up to fight the battle for us! Sometimes we may know He's there and sometimes we may not see Him and we may even wonder when He will ever show up! It's then that we realize that we had an overwhelming strength come over us to fight the battle at hand...or a light bulb may come on revealing to us the answer to the problem we've been searching for all the time. Whatever it may be...He was there.

...for the battle is not your's, but God's. ~ 2 Chronicles 20:15, NIV

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. ~ Psalm 46:1, NIV

He knows how much we can handle. We learn through the journey, although it's a tough education! We do learn. We do grow. Most importantly, we should be growing in our walk with Him.

God is ready to fight the battle for us! We just have to be willing to show up for the fight. That little bear probably would have been torn to pieces by that cougar. In fact, he was consumed with fear and slightly wounded. But the battle was won because his DEFENDER showed up and simply made an appearance. We may get wounded in the journey and have scars that will never go away. Each glance at our scars will be a reminder that our God is a faithful God and He met us at the place in our lives where we needed Him most!

God is your:

FORERUNNER, Hebrews 6:20 (You don't have to worry about what's ahead. He goes out before you. Don't be anxious about the day. He is in front of you and beside you. He follows behind to protect you.)

ADVOCATE, 1 John 2:1 (You don't have to defend yourself. Rest and know that He's taking up for you! Turn your anxious and fearful thoughts to Him. He will reveal the truth in His time. Trust Him!)

STRONG TOWER, Psalm 22:19 (You can run to Him and He will protect you. Don't fight alone and unprotected. God is your defender and longs to keep you safe.)

SHIELD, Psalm 3:3, 18:30 (You are guarded on every side. He is actively at work defending you! You don't have to become weary protecting yourself. You can hide in the safety He brings.)

Is all hell breaking loose in your life? Your DEFENDER is there. He is just waiting for the time to make His appearance.

Don't give up!

Catching Breaths

2009-04-22T14:45:00.003-04:00

We were waiting in line at the bank the other day and E asked, "Mommy, is it time for another Spring Break yet?" She had only been back in school 2 days from Spring Break. I said, "No baby. Your break just ended. Now we have to go back to school for a while."

She sat silently looking out the window and let out a big, adult-like sigh. "Man, I sure do need a break!"

haha..."What do you need a break from missy?"

"I just need to catch my breath. I think I need a Breath Break."

Need Some Help

2009-04-21T22:25:00.003-04:00

I've mentioned in previous posts about my new-found desire to save money by couponing, etc. I have been finding so many great deals to share with you all, only to remind myself that this is not what "Kisses from the Father" is supposed to be about! ...and that honestly, you may not be as excited over these deals as I am.

So, I thought that I would create a new blog devoted to that - and other things of that nature. (And of course, I will continue with this one.)

I had the brightest idea and cutest name come to mind today - "This Little Piggy" because of the association to piggy banks...saving money...and well, it's just cute! But guess what? It's not available!! Sheesh!!

I really would like to name it something cute like that...maybe even related to piggy banks or 'this little piggy.' My husband and I just simply thought, "What about the 3 Little Pigs?" Then we thought..."Wait, what does that...OINK...say about us?" haha...SNORT!

Your suggestions, original and creative, would be greatly appreciated!

Dis Lil' Ham thanks ya! (By the way, I am open to a variety. I truly am not stuck on the PORKER names! :) )

Wordless Wednesday

2009-04-15T16:12:00.008-04:00

Okay I know I know - this is supposed to be wordless ("Wordless Wednesday") but how can I not say sumpthin after posting pictures this beautiful! Isn't she LOVELY?! We had a good Easter despite the fact that my allergies were in full swing and well...you spend most of Easter Sunday outside! It was a long day with 3 egg hunts one right after the other: church, great-grandmothers, grandparents house. But we survived. We learned that next year, it would be wise not to try and fit so much into one day.

I was so excited to share these pictures of our E with you all! Enjoy!

Looking for something

2009-04-07T23:09:00.003-04:00

"General Robbie Risner described the seven years he spent as a prisoner of war as the "essence of despair." He said, "If you could have squeezed the feeling out of the word despair, it would have come out lead-colored, dingy and dirty." What's amazing is how he survived!

He pried the cover off a floor drain in his cell and lowered his head into the opening. There, he noticed a solitary blade of grass, the only smidgeon of color in his colorless world. Calling it a 'blood transfusion for the soul', Risner began each day in prayer, lying on the floor of his cell with his head down the vent, focused on that single blade of green grass.

Jesus said, "Your eye...provides light for your body. When your eye is good, your whole body is filled with light. But when your eye is bad, your whole body is filled with darkness." (Matthew 6:22-23 NLT)

What are you looking at? Each day you get to decide where you'll focus. You certainly don't have to look far to find things to complain about: war, gas prices, the economy, global warming, and crime. God gave Adam and Eve everything they needed in the Garden of Eden,, but they chose to focus on the one thing they couldn't have. He divided the Red Sea, sent signs to guide the Israelites in the wilderness and provided food so they'd never go hungry. Initially, "They...sang his praise. But...soon forgot what he had done." (Psalm 106:12-13 NLT)

Don't be like that. The Bible says, "If there is anything praiseworthy - meditate on these things." Surely you can find something to praise God for today!"

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The above is from a devotional that I read. I'm sure it spoke to you in the same simple, but profound way that it spoke to me. Living in the times that we are living in - with bad news all around us - there have never been more reasons to complain before! I like to think of myself as a "glass half full" kind of girl. Most people that know me well will agree that I am sometimes "overly" positive...well in an almost annoying way. I don't let people close to me get away with any negative comments about, well anything really!

But, I catch myself getting wrapped up in the news or the latest economic "jibberish" or "so-n-so lost their job today and they have a brand new baby to take care of" or this and that or this and that. I could go on and on. In the midst of so many things to complain about, we ALL have so many things to be praiseworthy for! Thankful for! Grateful for!

I don't know about you, but if my life is so covered up in negativity or problems that I can't find just one.single.thing to thank God for, I'd better get busy on that drain cover...gotta pry that thing off then stick my head in upsidedown and look...

...for that solitary blade of green grass.

Get a New Grill...for FREE

2009-04-01T16:34:00.003-04:00

So as you know, lately I've been working hard on learning to be frugal and save money.

...and FREEBIES are always GRAND!!

I found some information today online about how to get a FREE grill. Yes, I said "fuh-REE!"

In this day and time, we all need to find ways we can save money!!

As every Southerner knows, come spring it will be time to get ready for that all-important cooking technique of the south --- outdoor grilling!I have just found out there are many stores (not just in the South) where you can get a FREE Bar-B-Q grill!In these tough times free useful items are very welcome.

You can get a free BBQ grill from any of the following stores:

A&P

Albertsons

Costco

Dan'sFood

LionFry's

Home Depot

Big Lots

Bloom's

Brookshire's

Hyvee

Lowes

Publix

Safeway

Sam's Club

Tesco

Target

Trader Joe's

Wal-Mart

APRIL FOOLS!!!

(Thanks to ClipperGirlSavingsSpot for this!)

Fill me in on what jokes you pulled today...or what jokes were pulled on you!

Multi-lingual Child of Mine

2009-03-20T09:07:00.003-04:00

"Hey mommy! Say the word Chinese. No...like dis... 'Chi-neeez'."

"That's right mommy. Now you're speaking Spanish!"

She's a bit confused wouldn't ya say? But cute!

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I have been so busy. We got a new laptop and I've been having trouble uploading pictures on it. I have so many pictures to share with you too. :/

I also decided spontaneously to redo E's room and it's looking beautiful! I've been deep into girly paint for 2 days and wouldn't have it any other way! Can't wait to share it with you.

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I don't have any plans at this point to make this a coupon blog. But, as you see below, I've really enjoyed sharing some great stuff with you all. One thing I've been so busy on is learning the "art of couponing" and don't you laugh! There is truly an 'art' to this, if you want to do it right.

I have signed up to be a member at BeCentsAble and I encourage you, if you want to cut your budget even a little, check it out. I saw these ladies on GMA ~ video here. There are different levels that you can sign up for in the member area from free to $75. I joined at the $20 level and have 90 days to complete an online course...homework included...in order to become a "Centsable Shopper" with their tips and advice, which is incredible! I'm already blown away and have only completed 2 out of 9 lessons.

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We are also getting ready to gear up for Easter. I need to do some 'centsable' shopping and go find our Easter outfits! Our church also does a huge egg hunt and starting this week, we will be stuffing 14,000 eggs for the big day! We actually have an egg-stuffing party coming up at church. How fun is that?! :)

Another reason I have, once again I know, been so scarce 'round here is that we have all been so sick back to back. It's been no fun at all! Anyone that has ever lived here in Georgia can attest to the crazy weather we have. Infact, on Feb. 28th, we had tornadoes come through here and do some major damage on some folk's homes...Then, the following day, we had a huge snow storm! Well, huge for us anyway. It snowed all day and you know it - half the city shuts down for 2 days. It is so funny...

So with that crazy weather comes horrible colds and it's nasty! Following that...comes the pollen, which like a little monster, creeps into your house right under your nose. You don't realize it until your child begins waking up for 2 and 3 hours during the night coughing her head off - repeatedly! Everyone seems to be complaining with sore throats here and there and coughing and yucky nose stuff and I just wonder if the pollen may be worse than normal right off the bat.

Oh the joy of Spring! I can deal with it though because with that exception, I love Spring and Fall! Today is the first day too! :)

I have some major cleaning to get done today so that we can get out and enjoy a fun weekend as a family.

So if you are still here after all of my rambling, have a wonderful weekend and Happy Spring!

Good Weekend Finds

2009-03-06T12:03:00.004-05:00

Updated to add:

* Do you love Smoothie King? Sign up for their "Kingdom" and receive a coupon for a BOGO 20 oz. smoothie of your choice. Then, you will receive offers periodically by email, as well as a coupon for a free smoothie on your birthday! Yea...we love free! :)

Okay so I'm in the process of learning all about the art of couponing. You may laugh, but there is truly an art to it. There are so many things to learn about the right way to go about saving money with coupons and deals and, while at first, it is a bit overwhelming to learn...I can't wait to share it with you.

In the process, I keep coming across some great freebies and deals that I can't just keep to myself.

I know I've had several people take advantage of the earlier post and I'm glad to hear!
By the way, the coupon for the Free Roastburger at Arby's is only good through Monday so get to printing! These really are good.

So, here are more!

* Go to http://www.oldnavyweekly.com/ each week for new coupon specials to print. This is really fun...you have to click around on the page to find the best coupon. But you can only print one and you can't share it! I read where there once was a coupon on there for $75 off of $100 purchase! That is unreal! (Hint for this week: Extra Extra read all about it!)

* Pay it Forward event with Gap, Old Navy and Banana Republic. Print this coupon and use it as many times as you'd like from March 12 - 15th for 30% off! 5% of your purchase will be donated to The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.

* Go here for a FREE sample of Betty Crocker Warm Delights Mini's. You have to sign up for their email newsletter, but what a great way to get delicious recipes sent to you each week!

* Want a FREE Diet Dr. Pepper?

* RedBox FREE movie rental codes...Every Monday! During the month of March, you can get a FREE rental every Wednesday too! Go here to sign up and visit the RedBlog every Monday or Wednesday for the free rental code.

So for now that's it. See how fun this is? If you'd like to get a "coupon education" like me, visit http://www.becentsable.net/ and browse around.

Have a great weekend and be sure to give me some feedback! :)

I'm So Excited...I Just Can't Hide It!

2009-03-03T15:28:00.004-05:00

Exciting things are happening folks!

On Sunday evening, our candle company launched their first nationwide LIVE webinar!

Other candle business owners from all over the US and Canada gathered together to watch from their computers as they introduced 2 very exciting new lines of Specialty Gourmet Candles, along with the Spring 2009 product catalog...which is awesome!

But guess what? The webinar was recorded and you can get in on it and find out what the hype is all about! Check it out... here.

I encourage you to take just a few minutes of your time and check out the new candle lines and see a page by page view of the new Spring product catalog that came out today!

What you will see...

"Signature Scents" These are 20 oz candles with world class perfumes in a 4 colored tier setting. The fragrances will inspire relaxation and comfort while giving a "Pottery Barn" style to any room in your home. You'll see the first two fragrances launching the Signature Scent line:

After Dark (available for order now!) & Fireside (available within 30-60 days!)

"Spa Sations" With these 8 oz. frosted glass spa candles, you'll discover 4 premium fragrances that will embrace you in emotional well being and a positive state of mind. Go here to see the 4 new scents. Which one sounds best to you?

This candle company is making it possible for people just like you to create more time with your family, financial security, loads of fun & laughter, and a stable future with this profitable and fun home-based candle business.

The recording of this webinar is only available online for the next 7 days. Don't miss it!

https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/530913306

After watching the webinar, please let me know if you have any questions and what I can do to help you decide if this is right for you!

Ready to join and take your first step toward the 2009 you want to create? Sign up here.

Coupon Love

2009-02-26T11:26:00.003-05:00

Free Arby's Roast Burger expires 3/9/09, but you can print as many as you'd like! Kevin and I ate this for dinner last night and they are good!

BOGO at TGI Fridays expires 3/1/09 so go have a date this weekend! You can print as many as you'd like!

3 boxes of coffee for $3 @ Gevalia, including a free travel mug & free shipping! This is great...I just ordered my Breakfast Blend, Hazelnut & Vanilla Nut!

I'm having fun with this. I will keep posting...

Enjoy!

Good Morning Lord

2009-02-25T17:11:00.003-05:00

I wouldn’t call myself a “morning person.” However, I am very pleasant most mornings and love the idea of a fresh start to a new day. It doesn’t matter what kind of day I had the previous day; what kind of attitudes we had with each other; what kind of mood E was in or how much trouble she managed to get into. The morning is new…

Most mornings, my husband is already gone to work when I wake up – or he wakes me up when he leaves. But, when I wake up, I can’t wait to call him and say our “Good mornings!” If I don’t call him quickly, he’s calling me to ask why I’ve not called him and to say he loves me.

I love the pitter-patter of E’s little feet running across our floors to find me when she gets out of bed each day. She is anxious for that greeting, as am I! We squeeze and hug and kiss and ask each other (yes, she asks me too), “Did you sleep good last night?”

After our greetings, we start our day, our morning routine.

I usually have my prayer time in the shower or while I dry my hair. So, one day last week, I was just having a hard time with waking up and just couldn’t put forth the energy to pray or sing or anything. I just wanted to “slide by” and…I could always “make up for it later” right?

I did just that. I got focused on getting ready and rushing out the door and before I knew it, I was hours into my day and had not given even a brief couple of minutes with the Lord a second thought.

Suddenly, the thought popped into my head... I began to imagine how horrible it would be if – just humor me here – I woke up one morning, Kevin was gone to work. I walk into the den to find E sitting on the couch or watching t.v. and I get in the shower, finish getting ready, drink my coffee, fix E her breakfast, get her dressed and ready for school. We then leave for school, drive all the way, I drop her off with a smile only, she walks into her class - away from me – and begins her day. I go about my routine never making a phone call to a soul and my phone never ringing.

--- Keep in mind, none of us have spoken a word to each other at this point. ---

It’s 12:30 and I pick E up from school, get home to fix lunch, then she lays down for a nap and awakens to play in her room for a bit. I knock on her door and motion to a snack that I’ve prepared for her in the kitchen and then I begin to make preparations for dinner or whatever plans we have that evening.

At some point, Kevin comes in from work…I may greet him at the front door with a hug and kiss, but still never speaking. Our evening progresses and before we know it, the day has passed and we’ll be heading to bed soon.

As E crawls in her bed, she says, “Hey Mommy! How are you? Thank you for everything today. I love you and goodnight!” She falls asleep, too tired to talk anymore.

Kevin usually goes to bed before I do because I am a night-owl. So soon, he tells me “Goodnight” …maybe even “Thanks for dinner (hours after-the-fact). It was great!” and he’s snoring in a matter of minutes.

Do you have chills? I do just typing this!

I have never had a day like this nor do I plan to. If I did, I think I’d lose my mind! If this scenario proved to be true though, I would have spent the entire day awaiting conversation or acknowledgment from the loves of my life! They, in turn, would have been longing for the same.

Isn’t that how we are with God?

I’m guilty. We wake up too tired, or rushed and put our time with Him on hold or on the back burner. Before we know it, our day is through. We realize we never even “greeted” Him, to say the least, so we squeeze in an “itty bitty” prayer before drifting off to sleep. “Hey Lord! Thanks for this day and your blessings! Goodnight!” We are too tired and are beginning to dose off during just those short few words.

…When He’s been waiting…A-L-L day…for the loves of His life to talk to Him or acknowledge Him.

But, His beloved (us) were just too busy.

...for the "idiot" in all of us!

2009-02-23T15:10:00.002-05:00

Great title for a post huh?

I am NOT truly calling you an idiot...or myself for that matter ~ I don't think I've done anything (yet) today to merit that name! :)

Fun recipe I thought I'd share with you. This was one of my granddaddy's recipes and it is SO good - you will love it!

Warning: I never said it was a healthy recipe, but it is good for you...your taste buds, that is!

IDIOT PIE

2 pie crusts
1 8 0z. package cream cheese
1 box confectioners sugar
1 med. container Cool Whip
1 can blueberry pie filling

Mix the cream cheese, sugar and Cool Whip together with a mixer and pour into pie crusts. Top with the pie filling and refrigerate for a couple of hours or overnight until set.

* This makes 2 pies so you can cut the recipe in half if you'd like. Also, cut yourself a smaller piece than you think you want because it is pretty rich!

Oh but SO good...you'd be an IDIOT not to try it...(no offense) :)

Enjoy!

Finally Home

2009-02-16T15:31:00.004-05:00

I just heard this song for the first time in the middle of cleaning. I had to stop what I was doing and share this simple, but sweet song. Man! ... Mercy Me has a special gift with their songs of making your soul cry out, "Even so Lord, Come Quickly!" I can't wait to be home. Enjoy!

Calendar of Deals

2009-02-15T22:12:00.003-05:00

I received a little card in the mail with a magazine last year and while picking up around the house last week, I ran across it in one of our 775 junk drawers!!!

Calendar of Deals ~ What's on Sale When

JANUARY:
Bedding
Cookware
Toys
Treadmills (no brainer)

FEBRUARY:
Furniture
Small consumer electronics
Houses & Condos
Humidifiers

MARCH:
Winter Coats
Humidifiers
TV's
Winter Sports gear

APRIL:
Digital cameras
Spring clothing (really?)

MAY:
Athletic clothes and shoes
Cordless phones
Small consumer electronics

JUNE:
Summer sports gear
Swimwear
Furniture
Small consumer electronics

JULY:
Computers
Furniture
Outdoor furniture
Swimwear

AUGUST:
Air conditioners
Camping equipment
Lawn mowers
Dehumidifiers (ha ha)

SEPTEMBER:
Bikes
Gas grills
Shrubs, trees, perennials
Small consumer electronics

OCTOBER:
Digital cameras
Gas grills
Bikes
Winter coats

NOVEMBER:
Autos (new)
Toys
Gas grills
Bikes

DECEMBER:
Toys
TV's
Autos (New)
Computers

So, need a small consumer electronic? I think you're pretty safe all year 'round if you want a deal!

Maybe some of these will be helpful to you...

It's February, so if you're looking for a house, you better get out there! You've got 13 days left!

Week of Firsts

2009-02-12T16:45:00.010-05:00

So this has been a great week for us! It's been busy, but Spring is in the air (for now) and we are loving this beautiful GA weather!! At the moment, the skies are as blue as can be, there is a cool breeze blowing. I can hear the sound of people moving around and working outside - finding an excuse, like me, to get out if only for a few minutes. Something about days like this just call and beckon you to come out and bask in the beauty of God's gorgeous creations!

We have had some firsts this week and it's been neat. E brought home her very first progress report on Tuesday, which was WONDERFUL, by the way. The reports from her teacher have been so positive and outstanding and I can't wait to reward her for this. Her choice for her reward is Chuck E. Cheese, of course! We're going to make a big deal of this!

The small things that we will be working to teach her or for her to improve upon are manipulating zippers, buttons and snaps a bit better. I've spoiled her in that area because as you mommies know, it's just easier to do it myself!

So, today, she had her first school Valentines party and exchanged her little valentines with her school mates. It's so sweet. This is what I walked into the party and saw:

Chocolate face... This is the only time she even touched the cheese sandwich in hand. Like any smart person would do, she chose the chocolate cupcake over that.

Do they not look like they are teenagers... the way he is posing? This is one of her best buddies that goes to school and church with her. He is Mr. Personality and adorable!

Look at this face!!

I love this! She doesn't like to post for pictures much, but when you have her get in a picture with another child, she loves it!

My little school girl.

After coming home with all of her Valentines goodies, we dug straight in for the sugar! Another first? She enjoyed her very first Fun Dip. I should have gotten a picture. I had to teach her how to do it and she was in sugar heaven. I think she got almost every grain of Fun Dip powder that she could, although about a tablespoon of it ended up on the floor.

I also signed her up for K-4 this week. It's unreal how fast this first year of pre-school is flying by. I hope this isn't a sign of how quickly we will arrive at elementary, junior high and high school. Oh.My.Word!

Happy Thursday before Valentines!

Menu Plan Monday...on Tuesday

2009-02-03T14:47:00.003-05:00

So I meant to post this yesterday, but you know how that goes.

Here is our menu for the week:

Monday:
Hamburger Stroganoff

Tuesday:
Lemon Broccoli Chicken
Parmesan Baked Zucchini Crisps
Caesar Salad

Wednesday:
$5 dinner at church
OR
Meatloaf (these things are good!)

Thursday:
Hamburgers
Collard Greens with Cornbread

Friday:
??? Maybe dinner out ???

Need some menu planning ideas? Visit here for loads of great recipe ideas!

I don't get too excited over cooking usually. I love to bake! But, something about putting a hot meal on the table for my family - my husband - after he has worked so hard for us all day... Well, to say the least, it feels very rewarding.

Here's to dinner tonight!

And the winner is...

2009-02-02T15:25:00.003-05:00

The winner of my bloggy giveaway is Amanda Sue..."unforgettable dreamer" and I am so excited for her! She has chosen the red/pink clip barrettes and will also be getting a surprise set in the mail for visiting my Emmarella's site.

Thank you to all who entered and I hope that you visited the Bloggy Carnival last week and entered in other giveaways too! Did you win anything?

Be looking for the next Bloggy Giveaway Carnival...another one will be coming up before you know it!

Bloggy Giveaway

2009-01-28T13:52:00.006-05:00

It's time again for the Bloggy Giveaway Carnival hosted here. There are loads of giveaways to enter so enter mine and then get busy!! :)

My giveaway is for your choice of a set of these sweet barrettes for any special little princess. The dress barrette is only one piece.

Leave a comment stating which of these 3 would be your choice and I will pick a winner on Friday. The barrettes will be mailed to you next week and will be just in time for Valentine's Day!

If you visit my site and tell me your favorite thing pictured there, I will enter throw in an extra set if your name is chosen.

You have to have to HAVE TO be sure and leave an email address or make sure that I can contact you through your blog or your entry will not count!

This giveaway is open to anyone, even if you live outside of the U.S. and you do NOT have to be a blogger to enter!

Have fun and thanks for visiting!

Monday Musings

2009-01-26T20:08:00.005-05:00

Oh this youngen is too cute for words!

Her grandparents got her this new Wiggles "cuh-tar" while out shopping this weekend. She loves it! So, I walked into the den this morning to find her sitting on the coffee table, legs crossed like a little lady, just like this. Just jammin' away!

This evening, (and I wish I had a picture of this) she came out of her room with a ball cap on and started - what appeared to be break-dancing - and started saying "Criss-Cross Applesauce!"

They make up the cutest things!

Our Duty

2009-01-20T17:05:00.003-05:00

PRAY FOR RULERS AND FOR ALL WHO HAVE AUTHORITY
SO THAT WE CAN HAVE QUIET AND PEACEFUL LIVES
FULL OF WORSHIP AND RESPECT FOR GOD.

1 TIMOTHY 2:2

As Beth Moore stated on her blog today,
"Today it makes no difference how anyone voted.
God in His sovereignty has appointed this day and our new president needs our prayers."

Heavenly Kisses

2009-01-19T23:54:00.006-05:00

Don't you just love how faithful God is? It was one of those days today that left me smiling at His love for us at day's end. Have you ever felt like God was playing games with you? In a good way? I mean...it's funny how He drops a little miracle or blessing in your life at~not just anytime, but the perfect time. His timing, after all, is always perfect!

I spent time with the Lord this morning in a way that I haven't done in quite some time. I don't mention this to bring myself any glory...but to bring all glory to Him. My time with Him this morning was just something special. I felt His presence and knew that mountains were moving. You know what I mean I'm sure!

So, as if almost to say "Thank you" for taking time out of my morning and giving Him the first fruits of my day... when coffee was calling me, laundry was piled up, emails were waiting, etc. He was just constantly dropping lil' tidbits of love on me all day. Not one of them may have meant a hill of beans to you or anyone else. But, they were kisses, Heavenly kisses custom-made.

Yes...Kisses from my Father!

I suggest you play this game tomorrow...or why wait for tomorrow? Start now! Only 2 players needed and He's always game!

Imagine seeing this in your local headlines

2009-01-14T23:55:00.003-05:00

My friend's husband emailed this to me today. He said I would find it interesting. I dunno...for some strange reason, he has the idea that I like to shop? Certainly my husband would never agree ~ haha!

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Shopaholic Dies in Avalance of Clothing

Ready for the story that's made us vow to (finally) go through those piles of shoes on the top shelf of our closet?

This is the story of a girl in the UK who apparently went missing over the holidays ... only to surface buried under three feet of boxes. Apparently a mountain of suitcases fell on her, burying her alive.

Now, first of all, compulsive shopping is a legit problem for many people in the world—and we hesitate to make light of this kind of tragedy. On the other hand, we can't stop hearing cautionary tales our parents told us about "turning into macaroni and cheese" if we ate too much or "the old lady who lived in a shoe". I mean, the details are just staggering. According to the Daily Mail, girlfriend owned 300 scarves and literally thousands of trinkets—the situation was to the extent that "she had only a 2ft-wide path to get around [her valuables], and her car and garage were packed with other goods." This sounds worse than a New York apartment, which is tough to do!

All that said, the Daily Mail's headline describing her as a "Shopaholic Spinster" might make things even worse. I mean, why not just throw an "old maid" in there for good measure? Sigh. As a fitting epilogue, the upcoming Confessions of a Shopaholic movie will apparently run with a disclaimer - no doubt about the risks of said shopping behavior.

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Now I am not making a joke of this. Really I am not. But can you imagine what the funeral was like? Who needs 300 scarves?

Peers

2009-01-13T23:02:00.006-05:00

So I didn't expect the "peer" problem to come as early as 3 years old. But, it has. It is proving to be tough too.

How do you best explain to a toddler that she needs to be careful who she plays with without teaching her at this young age to quit talking to someone or to be ugly to someone?

I have caught myself wondering, "Why is it my child that is being affected by another?" "Why can't I just hear of it happening to someone else instead?" I know that is totally selfish of me and the fact is...I trust that the Lord knows that we, as her parents, will seek Him in this matter and let Him show us what to do. Maybe some other kid's parents would deal with it in a way that wasn't appropriate ~ or worse ~ maybe they wouldn't deal with it at all! I know that a lot of parents ignore things that shouldn't be ignored and/or just brush it off thinking the situation will go away. Only to find out that the learned behavior - never corrected - has become a major issue.

I am an overprotective mother. We are overprotective parents. There...I said it. I am proud of the fact. We are living in 2009 and you have to be that way! For example, we don't do magic...We don't support magic or watch things that get all into it. Unfortunately most children's shows have some element of it in there, which can't completely be avoided. But, we are careful of what her little ears hear; eyes see; etc.

See, E doesn't belong to us. She is His. He has just trusted her little life to us and expects us to care for her as best we can. We aren't perfect at it and never will be, but we strive to do what we feel is in her best interest. Physically, mentally, spiritually, and every other "~ally!"

Therefore, we teach our child to love everyone and if she is anything like I was growing up, she will be burdened for those children that are different; the one's that don't have the popular things that others have; the one's that no one else talks to; etc. I was one of those that was friends with everyone. I was best of friends with the popular kids and turned around and spent the weekend with "that girl." It didn't bother me! I disliked cliques and still do.

So I tread very lightly on the issue of "not playing with so & so" until she can better understand my reasons behind it. I will certainly not tread lightly when it comes to being a teenager and hanging with the wrong crowd...then, it will be different.

Now though, at the time when she is learning life's little lessons...She is learning to show everyone love and to be a friend to her little classmates, I am at a loss. We have reconciled with the fact that she is His and her little spirit needs to be protected from some things. Yes, she will be exposed to all sorts of things on this heathen earth, but I am Mama and during these pre-school days, I'll stand in the way!

My name is Stacey Baker and I am an overprotective mother. :)

What He is

2009-01-08T20:50:00.003-05:00

I learned a new word today. It touched me in a profound way too.

Chew on it today. I pray that it will touch you as well.

"Panpharmacon" ~ Salve for every sore; Medicine for every disease.

God is our Panpharmacon.

Father God...Dr. God, thank You for being my Panpharmacon. You are my salve for every sore. There is no problem that You and You alone can't fix. There is no disease or sickness that You can't heal. There is no friendship or relationship that You can't mend. There is no need...not today and not tomorrow that You are not the answer to.

You are my answer. You are our answer. Thank you.

My Daily Dosage...Online

2009-01-06T22:25:00.006-05:00

I just thought it would be neat to find out what my three visitors...haha...checked online each day.

I think those of us that are on the internet on a regular basis have our sites that we "frequent" each day or at least each week. What are yours'?

Here is a tidbit of my online routine:

* Gmail to check my email - that is first and foremost.
* Yahoo to check my other email...(I'm working on bringing them together.)
* Facebook ~ cuz you kNoW we have to keep up with our "peeps" on a daily basis. Of course, that takes a bit of time. Then, you end up chatting for a minute to a friend that may be logged on.
* MySpace (maybe a couple times a week) I am really liking FB better now. It just seems less - I dunno - highschool'ish.
* My Bank ~ gotta keep tabs with the money!
* Ebay - because I'm an ebay junkie! I have almost always got several things listed on there for sale so I log on regularly to see what the bidding is at on my items.

Check my "Kissin' Cousins" link in my sidebar to see the blogs that I keep up with. They are all great, but I have 2 or 3 of those that I just can't miss out on! They are my fav's!

I check these when I think of it: Craigslist and DealTaker (very cool site - check out the "Deals of the Day")

I'm sure I'll post more at another time. You know these things change quite often. We are always finding new sites to waste time on now aren't we?

So, again, what are yours'? Leave me a comment...

Planity-Plans

2009-01-02T15:23:00.002-05:00

Alright, I'm already hearing and reading about resolutions this and resolutions that. I've been on Facebook and people are already posting about hitting the gym yesterday, joining a new body pump class, changing to fat-free something-or-another, etc.

So here. These aren't resolutions. But, as a friend of mine said, "No resolutions. Just better habits." and a few good plans thrown into the mix.

#1 and most important: I plan to get closer to the Lord in 2009 than I've ever been before. I, like so many of us, have gotten busy with being busy in church...going about the Christian routine. I live a good life. I go to church at Christmas and on Easter and every week in between. We don't even consider missing church, it's just a given for us. But going to church is just going to church. My personal relationship with Christ is what matters. I've gotten comfortable in it. I need adventure. That sounds silly to some I know. But, I don't need to bungee jump, skydive or hike up Mt. Everest. I just need to let the Lord take me places.

...and it's gonna be a blast!

#2: Spend more quality time with my girl and less busy time around my house. I want her time with her mommy to be memorable down the road.

#3: Buy a couple Christmas gifts each month through next Christmas. The holidays snuck up on me this year and I found myself in a pinch to hurry and shop for everyone. Next Christmas is gonna be extra gooood.

So, I limited myself to 3 for now - although there are loads more running through my lil' head.

What are some of yours'? Comment back and let me know!

Happy New Year!!

2009-01-01T23:58:00.003-05:00

I'm back! There are 2 minutes left in the first day of this brand new 2009 year! I told myself I would not let the day go by without posting.

So here I am! I am back. I plan to redesign my blog and give it a fresh look. I am bored with it and I think that is why I got so blog-lazy.

I'll be back to post my plans for the upcoming year. I just can't bring myself to say "resolutions" like everyone. Resolutions are meant to be broken. Oh but plans ~ I've got plans baby and I'm gonna see 'em through.

I know. I know. You have 'em too! Can't wait to get an open discussion going on here and see what yours' are!

I lift a glass of sweet tea or a mug of coffee up for ya and "Cheers!" for the best year of our lives!

The Best is Yet to Come!

Until later...Goodnight!

I'm Coming Back

2008-12-12T22:53:00.002-05:00

I promise I'm coming back! I have totally gotten blog-lazy!! There are no excuses...

We leave this weekend for vacation and upon my return, I'm certain that I will have lots to tell you all about.

Have a wonderful week everyone!

Birthday Cake

2008-11-18T08:18:00.002-05:00

"You'll love this mouth-watering fragrance of fresh-baked frosted cake, taking you back in time to birthday celebrations of your childhood.."

It smells exactly like a birthday cake...or bakery.

This is a wonderful candle to give as a birthday gift. We gave this to someone recently for her birthday and she was excited to be able to light it at her party.

If you would like to try this scent or any other of our products, please visit my online store here or contact me directly.

As always, you can check out our exciting business opportunity here. Do you love scented candles or know anyone that does? Everyone does! I would love to share information with you on how you can have success with our fun gourmet candle business.

Fa La La La La...La La La La

2008-11-10T08:58:00.003-05:00

The Christmas music on our local radio stations has begun! I am THRILLED!! I woke up this morning only to find that "Santa Claus comes tonight!" Oh no...I'm not even close to being ready for him! Guess I need to go get some cookies and milk.

I've ordered some Christmas music off of ebay and it should be here today! Jaci Velasquez Christmas cd & one that has Bing Crosby, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin and a few others on it! Now that is my kind of music!

Our household will be rockin' from now through the holidays!

Quick Quote for Today

2008-11-05T00:29:00.003-05:00

I read this yesterday in my morning devotion book and it stood out to me in a very profound way.

"You are only a Leader if others are walking behind you. Otherwise, you are only taking a walk."

I've taken enough walks. Oh Lord, help me to be a Leader in these last days before your return. Use me to be a light to those that are lost and still don't know You!

As E and I pray each morning on the way to school, "Be glorified in me."

Fall Giveaway Winner

2008-11-03T15:57:00.002-05:00

I am happy to announce that Kam from Blueberries & Peanut Butter has won my Fall Giveaway (below). She has chosen the Happy Harvest Door Sign and I know she will be so pleased with it!

Thank you to all who entered! Be sure and visit Emmarella's and get your Christmas gifts ordered!

Fall Giveaway Time! Yea!

2008-10-30T21:57:00.008-04:00

Alright Y'all! I'm late on this...but it's that time again! The carnival technically ends on the 31st...oh no!! But, I will leave mine open through Monday, November 3rd!

So you better get to enterin'!!

My giveaway is for your choice of the following:

Happy Harvest Front Door Plaque

Pink Toile Children's Frame

Georgia Bulldogs OR

Alabama Crimson Tide Frame

Please leave a comment with your name and a way to reach you! If you do not have a blog, please leave your email address so that I can contact you if you win!

Go here and tell me what your favorite item on this page is...AND also tell me which of these 3 above would be your choice!

All participants must be residents of the U.S. or Canada.

If you like these products, please check out my site and see the other products over there. Emmarella's. I would be thrilled if you contacted me about a custom order or to order anything that is already listed on that site! Any of my items would be great gifts for Christmas, Thanksgiving or "just because".

Happy entering! Oh hey ~ and while you are entering, hop on over here and enter a giveaway for a free candle and gourmet soap bar!

Long Time No Talk To

2008-10-29T16:53:00.004-04:00

I promise I've had so many things to talk to you guys about...but I'm a member of

"PROCRASTINATORS UNITE...Tomorrow!"

Why do we do this? Put things off and keep adding and adding and adding to our lists of things to do. Then, one day has turned into weeks.

Speaking of those lists of things to do, I have several things to get done before heading out to church this evening. So, once again I'm not going to give you a "real" post. But something needs to be posted. Or AHHH you may totally give up on me! We just don't want that now do we?!

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6 days left y'all and counting...until this election has come to an end. I certainly pray it's the result we've all been praying for. But, at least it will over! I've had enough of the tv ads and the radio ads and the newspaper ads and the polls and the drama and backbiting. It's all I can take!! My word - has it ever been quite this bad before? Uggh!

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Okay so quickly - below is a pic of E with her new piano. She loves it and each day she begs for me to turn praise and worship music on so that she can play along with it. Our lil' composer...

Politics and Healing

2008-10-15T23:13:00.003-04:00

So after we got home from church tonight, I asked E what her lesson was about in Rainbows...her Wednesday night class.

She said with very much excitement, "Ah!! A man got healed. Jesus heal him."

I said, "Really? Why did he do that?"

"Because Jesus is sweet." "Hey, you sweet too mommy."

"But, what was wrong with the man?"

"Um, he was the pwesident."

Enough said there.

Alphabet Soup

2008-10-14T21:42:00.004-04:00

My child knows her alphabet. She has for a long time now. But, as most kids do for the letters L-P...

Well, she made the cutest "Alphabet Soup" with um...that.

A B C D E F G H I J K "and a little P" Q R S T U B W S Y and Z.

HA - You SO know you just sang that whole song out when you read that didn't you? Huh...DIDN'T YOU? :c)

Is that what she truly thinks it says? Each week at school, they are learning new letters of course. Like today she learned the letter "H" and tomorrow all the kids are wearing cool hats all day at school. You know...H for Hat...oh I'm sure you got it - sorry.

What will happen in a few weeks when they reach the letter "and a little P"?

I guess we've all had it wrong for a very long time.

I love to hear your comments! It lets me know you're reading!

Wordless Wednesday...Generations

2008-10-08T10:49:00.004-04:00

Precious moments to cherish...

A relationship that could never be described...decades apart in age, yet the friendship of two children. They are blessed to know each other.

...But words will never hurt me (Sticks & Stones)

2008-10-02T23:49:00.003-04:00

I don't even remember the situation, but at some point earlier in the week, something I said upset E. Well, let's put it this way: No 3 year old enjoys being told "no"...non-stop. :c)

So, she thought she'd get back at me and here's what she came up with in about 1.5 seconds.

She cussed me out. NO ~ not really! But, she said,...

"Mommy, you a Catapiwer. You a Doggie. You a Spider! Hum!" Then, crossed her arms and stomped out.

Oh the things they say. She thought she had said something big too! Almost like she was proud of coming up with that on her own.

I could barely control my laughter!

Emmarella's...the unveiling

2008-10-01T11:27:00.004-04:00

Although it has a ways to go, I welcome you to check out my brand new site...

www.emmarellas.blogspot.com

It would bless my socks off for you to be my very first internet order!! Contact me if you have any questions about anything you see!

After much prayer and work, the Lord has really opened the door for this business and I am thrilled to be able to share it with you! God bless!!!

The Process

2008-09-23T23:20:00.003-04:00

This is from a devotion book I picked up today and it is great!

Allow God to shape you

"We are the clay, and You our Potter." Isaiah 64:8 NKJV

Imagine a beautiful china teacup saying: "I wasn't always like this. There was a time when I was just a cold, hard, colorless lump of clay. One day the potter picked me up and said, 'I could do something with this.' Then he started to put pressure on me and change my shape. I said, 'What are you doing? That hurts. Stop!' But he said, 'Not yet.' Then he put me on a wheel and began to spin me around and around until I shouted, 'Let me off.' He replied, 'Not yet.' Then he shaped me into a cup and put me in a hot oven. I cried, 'Let me out of here, I'm suffocating.' But he looked at me and said, 'Not yet.' When he took me out, I thought his work on me was over, but then he started to paint me. I couldn't believe what he did next. He put me back into the oven, and I said, 'I can't stand this, please let me out!' But he said, 'Not yet.' Finally he took me out of the oven and set me on a shelf where I thought he had forgotten me. Then one day he took me off the shelf and held me up before a mirror. I couldn't believe my eyes. I had become a beautiful teacup that everyone wants to buy."

There are things going on in your life today that you don't understand. When you finally get to the place God wants you to be, you'll realize that He has been making you into a vessel He can use, bless, and use to bless others. So, allow God to shape you!

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WOW! I am in that process right now and I am certain that many of you are too. I don't understand the place that God has me in. I have felt alienated, distanced - if you will - from the world around me. I can't describe it. But, something has been stirring in my spirit and I feel the Potter's hand in my life through this uncomfortable time. I may lack understanding, but He has given me peace.

Have you ever walked by a store window and something in particular catches your eye? Maybe something beautiful like this teacup. It just stands out... It could be that that one item was recently in the process saying, "What are you doing? Stop! That hurts!" But, the Master...the Potter kept hard at work creating what He wanted it to be. And it is set apart now, catching your attention in a store window.

That is what we are called to be as Christians...Set Apart. Separated from the world around us. Different. Our Potter knows our potential. He wants to shape all of His children into something beautiful that can be used for His glory. We just have to surrender and be a willing vessel.

Don't fight the process. It is uncomfortable. I am there right now! But, if we beg him to stop because it isn't pleasant, He may just listen to us. Then, what would we miss out on?

Please comment! I love your feedback! God bless...

Fall Y'all!!

2008-09-17T22:00:00.002-04:00

Can you feel it?

Step outside right now...no just kiddin'! I heard so many people talking today about how nice the weather was. I don't know what the temperature got up to, but it was perfect!

In fact, coming out of church tonight, I was chilly...but a good kind of chilly. Ahhh that 100 degree heat is for the birds...well bless their hearts too! It must be even hotter up there where they fly! :c)

My husband thinks I am nuts because I start itching this year for the Fall to get here. Fall is a fun season. It does mean football, which doesn't excite me at all. But with football comes parties and get-togethers and with those comes time with friends. It is a busy season full of planning. What costume will I find for E to wear to our OctoberFest at church? Then, amongst other things, Fall brings Thanksgiving...what to prepare...oh and the decorating! We all know how excited the day after Thanksgiving is!! That early morning shopping and time with girlfriends...and mom...the best girlfriend! The deals, the clothes, the lines, the crowds ~ I love it! All of it!

With Fall, the Christmas lists begin. Who will I get What for? When will I get it? Where will I get it from? Hmmm ~ How good have they been this year? Again, hmmm :c)

Then, speaking of Christmas, the music, the music, the music! I would start listening to Christmas music after Easter if people didn't think I was absolutely batty! I don't know what it is about Christmas carols and why it feels so special, but as ridiculous as this sounds - it puts utter joy in my heart and it makes me want to spread the love!! I'm the corniest person ever! I know!
...add Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, etc. to Christmas music and you think I was corny before...I'll spare you!

Anyway, we've but a few days left of Summer '08 and I say sianara! It's not been a bad summer, but I get the feelin' the next few months are going to be great!

I plan to do a lot of relaxing with good friends...the kind that you can do nothing but relax with! I want to read...curled up under blankets. Watch movies with my best friend...my hubby. Hang out in the yard with E and take her to the park...in weather that is actually enjoyable. Carve a pumpkin, go on a hay ride, roast marshmallows and enjoy the warmth that the season will bring.

Man ~ and we're not even there yet! Bring it on!!

Dear Faithful Readers

2008-09-10T00:30:00.002-04:00

Don't give up hope on my return to regular blogging! I have plenty to talk about, but it seems that finding time to write lately - time where even 5 words will make sense when all put together - is a little hard to find.

Please don't go away. I would be lost without you... :c)

You'll hear from me shortly!

Wordless Wednesday...on Thursday

2008-09-03T09:09:00.005-04:00

3 or 13?

2008-08-27T11:39:00.003-04:00

On the way to school this morning, E said, "Mommy, you don't walk me to my class today ok?" "I just go in."

"You don't want me to take you in your class E?"

"No, I big gul now." "You can take me tomowow."

"I can't walk you in this morning?"

"Well, um, you can jus talk to my teacher and then you have to go bye-bye. Okay?"

So we came down the stairs and rounded the corner to her room. I turned to sign her in and she went straight to her class and never even said goodbye. Didn't even look back.

Wait a minute!!...I thought this wouldn't happen for at least 10 more years! She is only 3 people!

I am proud of her, yes. But, I left there feeling so sad and wanting my child to cry. (Twisted huh?)

There's always tomorrow right? :c)

What is God Like?

2008-08-25T22:46:00.003-04:00

My mother-in-law bought this book for E a while back. Let me tell you - it is an awesome book!

What a great way to explain God to your children...or anyone for that matter.

I encourage you to swing by your local Christian bookstore and pick it up.

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(Excerpt from the book, What is God Like?, Kathleen Long Bostrom)

* The book begins with children questioning God about what He is like.

Are you big or little? Short or tall? Do you have a temper? Do you ever get sad? Where do you live? How do I know you are near?

Then, He answers:

I'm as tall as the heavens, I'm as wide as the sea

But, even your hairs are all counted by me

My voice can be gentle and silent and still

And also like thunder that roars through the hills

When you are unhappy that makes me feel sad

I'm filled with great joy when I make your heart glad

My anger comes slowly and fades like the night

There's no darkness in me, just goodness and light

I AM like a mother who comforts your fears

and tenderly wipes away all of your tears

I AM like a father who wants to provide,

to care for your needs and to stay by your side

I AM the Almighty

I AM WHO I AM.

I'll love you forever, whatever you do,

For nothing can separate my love from you.

These are only bits and pieces of the book. There is so much more to it. It is actually 68 pages and then in the back, there is a scripture reference for each line to back it up.

I read this book to E before putting her to bed tonight. As I read, it was a gentle reminder of the Father that I serve and love. But, most importantly, the Father who loves me. We all need that reassurance huh?

Good night.

Ready, Set, Stand

2008-08-20T22:20:00.007-04:00

This is my Thankful Thursday edition:

So, we had a Women's Conference at church this past weekend and it was wonderful. God showed up in a big way. But, then doesn't He always?! That seems a little silly to say since He is everywhere, but you know what I mean.

The speaker that was supposed to come cancelled at the last minute because her dad is very ill and they aren't expecting him to make it. So they called another lady, which we've never had at our church, the night before the conference to see if she could come. She lives 7 hours away in Florida and still agreed to it!

Right when she got up to speak, she prayed for the other speaker and her family. I thought that was neat for her to do that considering she was our "second" choice. She was very humble.

She then said that it's funny that it happened this way because 2 months ago, the Lord gave her a message about prayer and spoke to her heart that she would speak this message to a very large crowd. Well, months ago, we determined that the theme of our conference would be none other than...Prayer!

She did an outstanding job...as if she'd had weeks to plan for this conference. She spoke from 2 Chronicles 20 regarding King Jehosaphat.

The message was simply this: The battle is not our's, but the Lord's. We don't even have to fight it. We just have to show up for the fight!

She said a lot of people ~ as they go through things ~ sort of crawl back in bed and hide under the covers and say, "Okay Lord, put up a good fight and let me know when it's over!" Nuh-uh! You need to be there or what will you get out of it?

This scripture says, (in so many words) "Do not be afraid! Stand and see the salvation of the Lord." It doesn't say "put up your dukes!" or "ready, set, brawl!" Just "stand and see."

She told so many encouraging testimonies of things she had been through in her lifetime. Some things which made my life to this point seem like a cake walk. Then, we heard numerous testimonies of ladies right in our church of what they've been through. WOW - you really have no clue where people have been. They seem to have it all together and it's easy to assume they've had it easy.

One girl...she is very young and in our youth group...told of how her parents were on drugs and her dad would come in high and abusive and instead of her mom protecting her and her lil' sister, her mom actually attempted to kill them, but they got away. They were raised by a family member and are blessed now with a great life. A battle won.

The speaker actually told of watching her first husband commit suicide. There were so many situations that she spoke of that I won't go into, but he was gone and she was stuck with a child to raise on her own. She had to figure out how to tell her daughter that she'd never see her daddy again. She had to figure out how to pay the mortgage she was now left with...and so much more.

But, today she is sharing the goodness of God with everyone she can. She had major battles to overcome, but she didn't have to do it alone. She didn't even have to do the fighting...

...and you and I don't either. God says the battle is His. I don't know about you, but I don't want to get in His way. He just tells us to show up and see. See victory and freedom take place. It won't come easy, but it will come if you trust.

I hope someone reading this today needed to hear this. We are all going through battles. Physical, mental, emotional, financial, spiritual...and you are weary. I certainly am. It gets tiring, but do not give up hope. Get your battle gear...the most important weapon of all...the Word of God.

The enemy is defeated!

Kisses from the Father...to you!

Sniffle, Cough, Shiver, Blow

2008-08-18T23:21:00.004-04:00

Lots of prayer, Kleenex, Children's Mucinex, Tylenol, bear hugs, kisses from mommy and daddy, and a snuggle under her winter fleece blanket. That was the prescription for bedtime tonight.

Yes, you read that right. It is mid-August and my child is wrapped up in a fleece blanket at the moment. Chills are no fun at all.

Don't you just despise summer colds?! Especially when it jumps on your child and you want to take it away or help them and you just don't know what else to do.

E has caught it. My sweet baby is so puny. She was a trooper today. Her fever would come and go...but then, why do fevers always show their ugly faces again at bedtime? That has never made sense to me. Then, you know stopped up noses always well...stop up again at bedtime. Uggh.

It took her almost 2 hours to fall asleep tonight. She was so tired physically and I thought with the medicine, she would go right to sleep, but she was wired.

She wanted the bathroom light on, then off. Her door cracked, then opened. She wanted a sip of water. She "needed" a kiss from mommy. She needed to go potty.

You know, most of those things I wouldn't deal with under "normal" circumstances. But, they know that when they are under the weather, they can pretty much ask for anything. (By the way, I have a hard time, whether it's 10 p.m. or 4 a.m. ever turning down the kiss from mommy thing.)

Well, she has finally hushed. The crying and whining has now turned into dreaming.

The problem is - I was sort of sad when I realized it had stopped. Is that wrong? I don't want my baby feeling bad or miserable by all means.

But, you see, I had already told myself that in 5 minutes, I was going to get that lil' baby girl, her (fleece) blanket, "RuRu" & "Ruff-Ruff" and curl up on the couch for the rest of the night - or for a while at least.

So now my excuse for that is gone. I know that when babies are sick, they need their mommies. I still feel that way at 29. So I was telling myself that that must be the problem. Two hours of being miserable and restless was going to be solved when mommy came and got her.

And now...well I guess I'll go to bed. Sad. Knowing that 10 years from now when she is 13, I will wish that I'd have thrown that 5 minute wait right out the door.

Good...night everyone!

Chapters of Life

2008-08-12T11:52:00.005-04:00

Before:

Would you say someone was happy for her first day of school? This picture says it all.

She couldn't wait. Me? I felt like it was my first day of school. I was a ball of nerves - stomach in knots, nervous energy, feeling like I was going to wet my pants.

The day had arrived. She was there and I was here...feeling as I feared...lost without her around. Yes, it's only 3 hours a day and to most of you reading, I must sound ridiculous. But, it's not the time she's gone. It is the fact that she was gone - to her first day of school.

I was one emotional mama the night before as she played in the tub. The realization that it was my last full day of her being home with me; the last day of a very long, yet wonderful chapter. Yes, we've closed and opened mini chapters with her through the years, but this is a big one.

It is only the first of many big ones though. In two years, we close the preschool chapter and then comes that bad word...kindergarten. Then will come middle school, high school and even college.

Of course there are other chapters like now...the thought of boys and boyfriends mean nothing to her. Right now, her daddy and granddaddy are the only "boys" that make her "heart go up" as I used to say when I was little. But, the time will certainly come when she is boy crazy and then someday...that one boy will steal her heart away and carry our little girl off to be his wife.

So, chapters open and close & come and go. They are hard to face at times. Other times they are just extremely exciting. But they are what our lives are made of.

And all that talk about somebody carrying my baby girl off to be his wife?...Well, I think I'd rather stick with dropping her off at preschool for now. You know ~ while she's still happy to see her mommy at the end of the day.

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After:

*** The day was a success. She did great! I held it together pretty well too I think. This was her sound asleep...all tuckered out after a long day at s.c.h.o.o.l. ***

Mediterranean Spa

2008-08-07T23:18:00.004-04:00

Wouldn't you just love a trip to the spa right about now? I don't know about you, but it is H-O-T...hot here in Georgia. It is so draining and honestly, going to the pool doesn't even sound enticing lately - cuz you know - the pool is outside.

But, oh to have "a day at the spa" - which I've never had, by the way. Yes, I've had numerous massages and they are wonderful. But, you hear these ladies talk about a "day" - a whole day?! at the spa. Wonder how much that costs!!

Babble babble I know... So, if you are like me and don't have enough cash or time for that, you can just light our brand new scent and at least pretend you are there right?

Because oh it smells like it really. It is very fresh and such an inviting scent.

Here is the description:

"Mediterranean Spa effortlessly creates a relaxing spa environment. Sit back and enjoy a mini vacation on a Greek Island or the French countryside when you burn this wonderful candle."

If you would like to try this scent or any other of our products, please visit my online store here or contact me directly.

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Have a great Friday!

It's Almost Here

2008-08-04T21:53:00.002-04:00

It was inevitable...the first day of preschool. I knew it was coming, but how did it get here so quickly?

One week from tomorrow, my sweet baby will approach the front doors of her brand new school. Her little bookbag over her shoulders and her little hand wrapped tightly around my fingers...I will hand her over to the care of someone...other than myself...people that I trust, but neverthelesssss - someone/anyone that isn't me.

This will be the start of a whole new world of learning. A week full of lessons that mommy wouldn't be good at teaching - that patience thing you know? Thank God for teachers!

I don't know what she'll do. I'm sure she'll cry and without a doubt - yes, I certainly will. I will be determined to fight the tears until I've reached the parking lot again. But, my mornings will be so different.

I am afraid that as I pull away, I will feel so lost. So scared. So excited. So relieved for a little "me time" yet so anxious for the pick up time to roll around.

I have a whole week now to dread and look forward to this all at the same time.

...And people - this is only pre-school! What will I do on the first day of kindergarten?

Oh and did I mention it's only for 3 hours a day?

We have a cutsie frame winner!!

2008-08-01T08:50:00.003-04:00

...and the winner is...

Allie from The Pink Potpourri. I am so excited to make a frame for you!

What a cool blog she has too, so head on over and check it out!!

If you like the frames below, please head on over to our etsy shop, Emmarella's, to see what other cutsie stuff we have. We would be honored to make something just for you or your sweetie pies.

In fact, if you place an order through etsy and mention this blog post, I'll throw in something extra special.

Have a FAB weekend everyone!!

Summer Bloggy Giveaway!!

2008-07-28T15:51:00.018-04:00

Handmade Frame

A friend and I are actually in the planning stages of starting a side business...so what a great opportunity this is to try one of our handmade items out on YOU!

The giveaway is for a frame similar to the one's below...you customize it yourself. If your name is chosen, just tell me what colors/animal/theme/name you would like on it and if it is possible, I will be happy to make it just as you want it!

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The giveaway will be open until Friday afternoon and a winner will be announced shortly thereafter. You must be a resident of the U.S. to enter, but you do not have to be a blogger!!
* Please leave a comment with your name and a way to reach you. If you do not have a blog, please please make sure you leave an email address!* I would appreciate you commenting on which of these is your favorite or what theme you would most like.

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She'll Never Doubt

2008-07-25T14:06:00.003-04:00

We were flipping channels one night this week and happened to stop on SuperNanny. That's a great show, but we don't watch it often because if E is still awake, we won't let her watch how horribly those kids act. That's the last thing we need is for her to get any "bright" ideas!!

We watched for a few minutes and as you see in a lot of those shows, it isn't the kids who are the problem...it's the stinkin' parents!! Some of these parents are just unbelievable don't you think?! Not always now...some of the parents have just bitten off more than they can chew and simply need help. But some need straight up intervention...better known as Jesus! :c)

This mother in particular this week had 5 or 6 kids. I believe it was 1 boy and 4 or 5 girls. (ahhhhhh, poor lil' boy) The mom showed no emotion and was so negative the entire time we watched. Her and SuperNanny got into it because SuperNanny wasn't seeming to get through to her. She was having to talk the mother into loving on her children and talking nice to them. All those kids had been used to was anger and yelling, from the mom.

Towards the end of the show, SuperNanny (SN) walked the mom into her oldest daughter's room, which was 12, and had her suggest that they go bowling, just her and her daughter. The girl was so excited because with that many siblings, she never got any one-on-one time with either parent. The mother was about to walk out and SN stopped her and told her she needed to hug her daughter.

**wait a minute!** I said to my husband, "What kind of mother needs to be told or even encouraged to hug her child. That is what mommies do! We love our children. A Mother's Love...

So she followed "orders" and hugged her daughter and at first it was so awkward watching - as if they didn't know what to do. Then, the mother teared up and the daughter did too. The little girl said, "I can't remember the last time my mom hugged me."

A simple hug from a mother - or father. It doesn't take long to do, yet it can carry you through a whole day or make you forget about the biggest of problems in your life. It makes you better when you are sick; happy when you are sad; uncomplicates things in a complicated day. Yet how many toddlers, kids, teenagers or even adults ever go without it?!

That saddens me.

I feel like E sometimes gets sick of my hugs and kisses and constant "I love you's" because she gets them from the time she wakes up until bedtime that night. Then, after she is sleeping sound, I sometimes go in to watch her sleep as I play with her hair...loving her.

I don't say that for any praise or attention. I am only determined to never get so wrapped up in the day-to-day stresses of life that I fail, for even one day, to remind my kids of the reassurance of their mother's love.

Happy Anniversary My Love

2008-07-22T09:11:00.003-04:00

Today, I celebrate 8 years of marriage to the most amazing man my life could have been blessed with.

Kevin, I am so thankful for your love, your friendship and the wonderful husband and father that you are. Mostly, I thank you for being the God-fearing man and spiritual head of our house that you are, which makes you everything else.

You have always stated the importance of: God first; Family second; and all others will follow. Our marriage and companionship is what it is today because your relationship with Christ takes precedence over all else and in making Him your priority, He makes you the man you need to be for us. Thank you for that. Thank you for loving your family enough to make us "second" on the list.

This road of marriage has certainly not always been easy. In the last 8 years, we have seen some very tough times...times that without the hand of our Heavenly Father guiding us, we'd have not found the way through it. But, we held on tight and stuck together and here we are.

I am confident in the love we have for each other now. I have seen our love move mountains and crash through obstacles that have been in our way and it is as strong as it is today because of the things the Lord allowed us to face. Thank you for giving me a love worth fighting for.

I appreciate all the easy-to-love things about you, as well the little things that drive me nuts...the way you rub your feet together every night in order to fall asleep. I wouldn't have it any other way.

I am so excited to know that however much time we have left to spend on this earth, you are stuck with me and I am stuck with you. What joy that puts in my heart.

I love you "tooky" ~ forever and always.

It's Happening

2008-07-15T21:11:00.004-04:00

In every young woman's life, there comes a point where ~~~ she becomes ~~~ her mother!

Yesterday morning, we were getting ready to leave the house and she asked for something. When I told her no, she mumbled, "It juss not fayer!" (Where did she learn this?)

I'm telling you - before I could even think about a response, it came out..."Well, life's not always fair!"

I always said I'd never say that to my children. My mother assured me I would.

She was right.

I always said I'd never use the powerful "mama spit" on E's face too. My mother assured me I would.

She was right. That mama spit works wonders!

Someday when E doesn't feel good, she will tell me something hurts and I will probably respond with, "Ah it's just a growing pain. You'll be fine."

That would be from my grandmother. When she has pain, she has pain. But when you do, it's only a growing pain.

Yep - I grew alright. Right straight into my mother. It was inevitable. :c)

"Issumagijoujungnainermik"

2008-07-15T14:34:00.002-04:00

I promise I didn't just start hitting the keyboard for my title. Would you believe this is a word?...in the Eskimo language.

Have you ever struggled to forgive someone for something? Of course you have - if you are human. Which, if you are reading this right now, I assume you are???

I have. I've been hurt. You've been hurt. We've all had our hearts broken here and there. Little things, big things. Looking back...extremely stupid things. But many things.

It is so easy to say you forgive someone, but then run into them somewhere or have someone mention the situation and everything comes right back. Then, you think about it and talk about it and before you know it, you realize you've slowly but surely become bitter. Oooh and bitterness - well, that's just a word that you don't want to mess with.

I can honestly say that I've never hated anyone. That is way too strong of an emotion and no one and nothing is worth my missing eternity in Heaven over. But, I've been hurt before...and when I've taken too long to deal with that hurt, in turn I've become bitter.

My point here...

"Issumagijoujungnainermik" - in the Eskimo language means - "not being able to think about it anymore." ~ Forgiveness. What release you feel when your heart is troubled over something and suddenly you don't think of it anymore. You have chosen to forgive. It's like a weight has lifted off of your chest. I've been there. I've experienced issumagijoujungnainermik first-hand. Haven't you? Aren't we offered unlimited issumagijoujungnainermik each day of our lives? What does the Bible say?...70 X 7...Christ forgives continually and then He thinks of it NO MORE.

Genuine forgiveness is about moving on, and refusing to think anymore about what happened.

As Christians, we are called to be like Christ. That is a hard path to walk, but it is a choice that we must make daily, hourly sometimes. Paul said, "Forgive...because the Lord forgave you."

Has someone offended you? Talked about you? Stabbed you in the back? Have you been hurt by a friend, a loved one, or had your heart broken by a spouse? Whatever your hurt may be, choose forgiveness. That doesn't mean it will never cross your mind. That doesn't even mean the situation won't still bother you. I can assure you, that in some circumstances, it will. But, by forgiving, you are allowing Christ to work in your life and in turn, He will show you some powerful and mighty things. Who knows more about forgiveness...or issumagijoujungnainermik than He does? He forgave all of our sins and relieved us from all of our debts before we even existed? He died so you would be forgiven.

Take the high road today. You won't be walking it alone.

Tuesday Talk

2008-07-15T06:07:00.002-04:00

Lastnight, E was in the bathtub and all out of the blue, she starts singing "Me & Mrs. Jones."

I am a HUGE Michael Buble fan and have all of his cd's...but, it's been quite a while since she's heard that song. It's amazing how things just pop into their little heads.

"Me & Mrs. Jones"...am I a great example of a mother or what? hahaha

************

We were driving down the road in the afternoon and I was rushing to get her home in time for a nap. It was already getting late so she started falling asleep about halfway home. I turned the music off and started being really loud to keep her awake. I told her she had to stay awake until we got home.

In tears, "I weally wanna nap mommy!" She was getting aggravated with me somethin' awful.

So, I kept getting louder and louder and telling her to wake up and she yelled at me with all her might, "Mommy, I'm only asleep with my one eye!!"

Needless to say, we made it home and she slept like a baby.

Just Another Manic Monday

2008-07-14T14:22:00.004-04:00

Well, it's not really manic at all. But, just what is it about Mondays?

You know what I'm talking about. It needs no explanation. It's Monday. (sounds a lot like "mundane" doesn't it?)

Something about this day of the week seems to set the bar for the week doesn't it? I don't know why.

My house is a mess. Does your house get destroyed every weekend like mine? It can be spotless on Friday evening. Then somewhere between Friday night and Sunday night...it happens. Who wants to go into a brand new week with a strown and messy house? Evidently we do. Because it never fails and we don't seem to change.

Come Monday morning, I peek open my eyes, see the mess awaiting my attention and every bit of me wants to crawl back in and hide until next Monday morning. I step out from my bed and into my bathroom...it's not so bad. I put away a few things in there and continue to the kitchen to make some coffee...the path on the way is very disturbing...there are toys out that have not been played with - she only wanted to bring them out. There are multiple pairs of shoes that have been too lazy to walk themselves back to the closets that they belong in. There are drink cups from the night before that need to take a bath in the dishwasher - and we aren't even to the kitchen for the coffee yet. I won't even explain what it looks like in there.

The rest of the house? Nah...I'll spare you the mental picture that I could sooo paint in your mind right now. Oh and her room is a separate post of its' own.

Why do we allow this? Every Single Weekend...

This alone could easily make it feel like a 'Manic Monday' morning in just the few minutes after I'm out of bed. But, what else are Monday's for? I plan out the week in my mind on Monday.

I need to plan what's for dinner - not just tonight - but each night this week. Then, I need to shop for the week's menu.

Any appointments? Errands that need to be run? What day will work for a date with a girlfriend? Will she want to stop by afterward? Not-in-a-million-years if my house is still in this shape.

Oh yeah...what about that dinner I set for Thursday night at our house? Did I mention the people that are coming make neat-freaks look messy? There is not a clean enough word that I know to describe the wife. Which, by the way, is a compliment. Oh the things to do before then.

It's funny...after I'd already begun this post this afternoon, I picked up a devotional that was laying nearby and today's devotion was talking about feeling overwhelmed. This is a feeling I experience way to often. The book suggested making a list and going about it one step at a time.

But...um...have you seen my house? What step do you take first when every direction is calling you?

So, I digress...

I Promise...

2008-07-10T22:24:00.002-04:00

I am coming back. For the small group of you that faithfully read my blog, please keep checking and don't give up on me! I've been a total slacker lately with the writing.

I have so many things on my mind to talk about, but this sort of "talking" takes time and thought and therefore, mental energy, which I feel I am lacking at the moment. I sound ridiculous.

The computer is calling me and I see it and run.

So I will "see" you soon. Don't leave me! :c)

Oh...just a tidbit for ya...

We had a ton of thunder and lightning around here tonight. On a few occasions, when a limb breaks in a tree 8.3 miles away, we.lose.power... So, when she saw the thunder, she mumbled something about a "tundertorm", picked up the phone and said, "Yes, Georgia Power?"

We never lack for entertainment.

WFMW ~ '5 Ingredients or Less' Edition

2008-07-02T06:15:00.002-04:00

Chicken Cheese Ball

10 oz. can of white meat chicken, drained

2 pkgs. cream cheese, softened

1/2 pkg. ranch dressing powder mix

pecans, chopped finely

Shred chicken with a fork and mix it with the cream cheese. Add in about ½ of the pkg. of ranch powder. (You may want a little more in there.)

Spread chopped pecans onto wax paper. Mold mixture into a ball and roll in the pecans to cover. Refrigerate for 3 hours or overnight.

* Hint: Keep running your hands under cold water so mixture won’t stick to them.

This is one of my favorite things to take to get-togethers or to serve as a snack when you have a few people over. It looks so fancy and everyone will be shocked that you made it from scratch.

Enjoy!!

Oh and for more 5 Ingredients or Less posts, go here.

Asian Plum

2008-07-01T15:05:00.004-04:00

This month's Candle of the Month is...

Asian Plum

"This exotic aroma is tangy and spicy and makes a perfect summer fragrance to enjoy in the house or on the deck."

If you'd like a free sample of this month's scent, please leave a comment below with a way to reach you..."FREE" people!! You can also go here to shop online or here find out how to make money with yummy scents like this. This is ridiculously fun!

God bless!

We have a Winner!!

2008-06-30T11:13:00.003-04:00

...and the winner is...

Elizabeth - who is not a blogger. Elizabeth, thanks to Random.org, your name was chosen and you will now have a wonderful read for the summer!

Hadassah, One Night With the King

(the story of Esther)

Enjoy!

There will be another summer giveaway soon! "Stay tuned!"

A Summer Book Giveaway!!

2008-06-25T17:20:00.005-04:00

I love these giveaways because I get to meet so many new people...like you!

Gretchen over at Jewels in My Crown...Someday is hosting this book giveaway and so I decided to participate!

Here is what I will be giving away:

Hadassah, One Night With the King

(the story of Esther)

This is a wonderful book!

"A gripping action-adventure story full of political intrigue and suspense, with a brand-new perspective on a historical figure you may think you already know!"

"Both a palace thriller and a Jewish Woman's Memoir, Hadassah brings the age-old story of Esther to life. This historically accurate novel layered with fresh insights provides a fascinating twist on a pivotal time in religious history, and readers will find it bursting with page-turning drama."

Have you seen the movie? If not, see it! But, this book will take you deeper than the movie. Tommy Tenney's writing has a way of making you feel you are there. I love it.

I know you will too!

All you have to do is leave a comment with your name and a way to reach you. You do not have to have a blog to enter. But, if you do not have a blog, please please make sure I can reach you!!

The drawing will be open until Monday, June 30th, when I will announce the winner. (chosen by random.org)

Also, you can visit the above link to enter for other great summer reads.

Have fun!

Happy Birthday Mama!

2008-06-24T22:44:00.005-04:00

Okay...so it's almost a day late and I am sorry for that! Fact is, (as cheesy as it sounds) every day spent in this life with a mother like you is a reason to celebrate.

You truly are the best and I love you very much!!
Here's to another ____ years - well, remember what I said the other day? Still don't wanna do that! :c)

I love you.

Weekend Getaway

2008-06-20T16:24:00.001-04:00

We are leaving for this...

Okay, Okay - so it's not quite this exotic looking. But it is a quick weekend getaway to the beach. It will be nice & hopefully we'll be refreshed when we return.

"See" ya soon!

Hope your weekend is as nice as mine will be.

Wordless Wednesday (almost)

2008-06-18T12:43:00.003-04:00

"Train up a child in the way 'she' should go and when 'she' is old, 'she' won't depart from it."

I think her granddaddy already has the ball rollin' don't you?

Uh-Oh! Moments

2008-06-17T09:23:00.004-04:00

We start teaching those words to babies at a very small age. As most parents begin to do, when E was just a brand new baby, we started saying, "Uh-Oh!" about all sorts of things.

When we dropped something, when we spilled something, forgot about something, etc.

Now she knows exactly when to say it. Oh and when she does, I go running. I want to run the opposite direction out of fear of what I will find, but I know it's usually something that needs immediate attention.

It doesn't matter what I am in the middle of - and it doesn't matter how soft or loud she says it.
Sometimes I feel that she could whisper it, "uh oh!" and it travels down the hall and through the air to my ears in mommy-speed.

This happened this morning and as I was thinking about how much I dread hearing those two words, the thought crossed my mind...

This can really be compared to how our Heavenly Father feels when we are caught in an "Uh-Oh!" moment. He doesn't dread hearing those words like we do. He longs for us to say them. "Uh-Oh!" usually means that Emma is in a mess of some sorts...something is broken, she got dirty, she fell, etc. and that sound automatically gets my attention and brings me running to help.

How many "Uh-Oh!" situations do we find ourselves in - usually our fault - and instead of calling for His help, we drown in our own sorrow or we try to fix things by ourself? Big mistake!

If E tries to fix her own mess, (while I appreciate her trying) she will most assuredly make a bigger mess than there was to begin with OR she prolongs it...when mommy may have known what to do to get her out of it.

He sees the BIG picture; He created you; "He's got the whole world in His hands!" so I think He knows how to help.

Call Him. It can be a whisper and I promise He WILL hear and He WILL come running! From your mouth to God's ears.

"Uh-Oh!"

Not Na-ow? Already?

2008-06-16T15:37:00.004-04:00

Oh no! Please don't tell me she has already reached the age of not taking naps. I hear of kids older than her that still nap everyday. She needs her nap...I need her nap! That is my time - my quiet time. Time where I am "Stacey - in my right mind" and not Mommy, Mommy for 2 whole hours! 2 hours out of about 15 hours each day.

It's nice.

But, not today. Today, there is that broken record that keeps on keepin' on with the questions and "mommy" calling and jibber-jabber that just.is.not.stopping!

"Mommy?! You dayer?" "Mommy, can I get up na-ow?" "Hey, Mommy - I said Mommy!"

"Is it time to get up na-ow?" "Can I wake up?" (she never went to sleep)

"I need you mommy. I need see you for a minute." "Oh Mommy! I only want see you!" "Can I get up na-ow?" "How 'bout na-ow?" "Just a moment?!" (where did she learn what a 'moment' was?)

If she only knew that 26 years from now, she could possibly be blogging about her toddler biting everyone in the nursery; why in the world her daughter won't take that nap that she wishes she could take; when her little boy is going to quit picking his nose and wiping it on Aunt Edna; and when her husband will get home from work so that she can lock herself in the bathroom, pantry, or closet for just 5 quiet minutes!!!...then, maybe she would just enjoy it while she can and take that little refreshing nap that she is so gonna miss. Actually, by then, her 3 year old will probably be blogging about her.

**By the way, my daughter has never bitten anyone, she doesn't have a nose-pickin' problem, nor does she have an Aunt Edna. But, that closet sounds pretty good right now.**

The latest - "Mommy, is it time yet? I weally like you." How can I turn that down? While there may not be any hope for a nap today, there is still a gorgeous afternoon waiting to be explored.

Afternoon: here we come.

My Cardboard Testimony

2008-06-12T20:16:00.001-04:00

What is yours?

Please feel free to comment and share what your cardboard testimony is.

Wordless Wednesday

2008-06-11T17:56:00.006-04:00

This is what summer is all about!

Happy Birthday Puddin'

2008-06-10T00:01:00.000-04:00

I can hardly believe that it has been 3 whole years already! My how you are growing E! Are you sure you are only 3 today? You act 13!

You are amazing, wonderful, special and truly...truly the light of our lives. We often try to remember life before you and we can't. Because it was empty - until Jesus blessed us with your little life.

For years, I would stare off into space and dream about the day when I had a little girl to call me "mommy" and to love. Praise God that dream came true and time is flying.

Every day that passes is such a blessing and such a gift and I pray that I never take you for granted. I love you E and I pray the mighty blessing and favor of God over your life now and always. May His hand be on you with every step you take and may you never step out from under the shelter of His Almighty wings. God is already using you, even at the small age of 3 and I pray that you will always follow His direction for your life. It won't be easy, but it will be well worth it. Enjoy the journey baby - enjoy the "dance."

I Hope You Dance

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,

You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,

May you never take one single breath for granted,

GOD forbid love ever leave you empty handed,

I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,

Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance,

I hope you dance....I hope you dance.

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
Never settle for the path of least resistance,

Livin' might mean takin' chances but they're worth takin',

Lovin' might be a mistake but it's worth makin',

Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter,

When you come close to sellin' out reconsider,

Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

I hope you dance....I hope you dance.

Happy, Happy Birthday to our sweet, sweet girl!

You are loved so much more than you'll ever know!

Don't worry

2008-06-05T08:12:00.003-04:00

FORERUNNER

Hebrews 6:20

God is your Forerunner.

~~~~~

You don't have to worry about what's ahead.

He goes out before you.

Don't be anxious about the day.

He is in front of you and beside you.

He follows behind to protect you.

Work Ethics

2008-06-04T22:20:00.005-04:00

E: "Gib me shugars mommy. I goin' to work now."

Me: "Okay baby. Have a great day. I love you."

E: "I got get my work hat on."

Me: "So where is it that you work again? What is it called?"

E: "Uuuummmm. It called Liberty Heart."

Me: "What kind of job is it? What kind of work do you do there?"

E: "It over toy-ees." "I gonna be late. Gotta go." "Awwh - day cosed now."

Me: "Oh no E! You missed work today? Do you think they are gonna fire you for not coming in?"

E: (very strange look as she tries to figure out what fire has to do with this conversation.) "Nah cuz' I juss don't feel like gowin'. I seepy today."

This is when her daddy interupts with a great big laugh...at which point I'm sure he's thinking he wishes his job were like the jobs at Liberty Heart. You know - where they are over 'toy-ees'.

Weekend Rundown...or Run Over

2008-06-02T08:19:00.005-04:00

1. Woke up very early to beat everyone else in town to the local Honda dealer. Not like it is that much of a popular place, but the car we wanted is extremely limited.

2. Fought tooth and nail for the deal we felt we deserved. They felt otherwise, but...I W.O.N. and that is all that matters. (smile)

3. E fell and got her worst boo-boo yet on the "chalk-walk" - better known to you and I as the sidewalk.

4. In reference to #3, we discovered that we have a little drama queen and were amazed that at 3 years old, they already know how to "milk" things. "Carry me. I can't walk."

5. Mid-afternoon movie of "The Rat Movie" ~ "Alvin & the Chipmunks" was too hard for E to remember. She just knew they looked like rats.

6. Dinner with some friends, then strawberry cheesecake, followed by a Botox Song ~ Don't Ask!

7. Late-night visit from Johnny Ringo, Doc Holiday & Wyatt Earp. Hmmm

8. Sunday morning - great worship & much needed. Dynamic message on kindness - ha! - much needed. Maybe I should have heard that message before tackling #2 you think?

9. 2 hour Sunday nap, followed up by a quick visit from family.

10. Last thing on the "rundown" was a goodbye...farewell...to some of the best friends anybody could ask for. Hoping for a happier ending to next weekend.

But Oh! Did I mention we got a new car? :c)

'Have You Ever' Meme

2008-05-30T08:47:00.002-04:00

In your entire life have you?

Gone on a blind date NO
Skipped school YES (sorry mom & dad)
Watched someone die YES
Been to Canada NO
Been to Mexico YES...2 weeks ago
Been to Florida YES
Been on a plane YES
Been lost YES
Been on the opposite side of the country NO...the middle is as far as I've been
Gone to Washington , DC YES
Swam in the ocean YES
Lettered in a high school sport ARE YOU KIDDING?!
Cried yourself to sleep YES
Played cops and robbers NO
Played dolls YES...that's more like it!
Recently colored with crayons YES
Sang Karaoke YES
Paid for a meal with coins only YES...also for gas when I was in high school
Done something you told yourself you wouldn't YES
Cheated on an exam DON'T KNOW
Made prank phone calls YES
Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose YES...haha
Caught a snowflake on your tongue NO...I live in Georgia
Danced in the rain DOES RUNNING COUNT?
Written a letter to Santa Claus YES
Been kissed under the mistletoe YES
Watched the sunrise with someone you care about YES...well, sunset at least
Been arrested NO
Blown bubbles YES, very often
Gone ice-skating YES
Been skinny dipping outdoors NO!!
Any nickname? YES (Tooky, Kermit, Scooter, Stace)
Mother's name? Cheryl
Favorite drink that I'm allowed to have on a regular basis? Coffee!! I know I bet my friends are shocked!
Body Piercings? YES, Ears only
Birthplace? Columbus, Georgia
Favorite vacation spot? Any cruise at this point
Been to Africa NO, but I want to go on an African safari - for the photography aspect!
Eaten cookies for dinner YES! Yum!
Ever been on TV NO
Ever steal any traffic signs NO
Ever been in a car accident? YES...nothing but "fender benders"
Drive a 2-door or 4-door vehicle? 4 door
Favorite salad dressing? Ranch
Favorite Pie? Chocolate Chess warmed up with vanilla ice cream
Favorite number? NO, but I have a thing for even numbers unless it is a 7. Don't ask.
Favorite movie? The Notebook?
Favorite holiday? Christmas Eve...I love the anticipation of Christmas Day :o)
Favorite food? Country cookin'
Favorite day of the week? Friday
Favorite brand of body wash? Not Body Wash - Bella Bars are amazing!!
Favorite toothpaste? Crest (mint flavored)
Favorite smells - Emma's freshly washed hair
What do you do to relax? What is that? I have a 3 year old.
How do you see yourself in 10 years? Happy, with my family complete. Honestly, hopefully in Heaven.

A fun meme, if anyone would like to join in, feel free to grab it and paste it into your own blog.

Celebrate Good Times...Come On!!

2008-05-29T11:28:00.003-04:00

This thing......has FINALLY be conquered. At least I think it has.

Mama's, you feelin' me? You and I know that this is a reason to CELEBRATE!!

Names of God

2008-05-27T15:36:00.004-04:00

I've always heard the "common" names of God, but there is so much more to Him. I am very excited to share several of them with you.

Please let the following Names of our God be an encouragement to you. Pick one and stand on that name each day. Whatever name you stand on, be confident that it is for you. He is your Magen, your El Shaddai, your Advocate, your Dayspring. Just as He is mine.

MAGEN

Psalms 3:3, 18:30

God is your Shield.

~~~~~

You are guarded on every side.

He is actively at work defending you!

You don't have to become weary protecting yourself.

You can hide in the safety He brings.

EL SHADDAI

Genesis 49:25

God is more than enough.

~~~~~

He is completely nourishing and satisfying.

You can rest knowing He will meet your spiritual, emotional, and physical needs.

He is your constant sustainer.

ADVOCATE

1 John 2:1

God is your Advocate.

~~~~~

You don't have to defend yourself.

Rest and know that He is taking up for you!

Turn your anxious and fearful thoughts to Him.

He will reveal the truth in His time.

Trust Him.

DAYSPRING

Luke 1:78

God is your Dayspring.

~~~~~

You can be revived moment by moment.

He is refreshing, invigorating, and satisfying!

Open your neediness up to Him.

Experience the mystery of Living Water flowing through you.

J.R.

2008-05-22T20:40:00.002-04:00

We are gonna miss you Boogy! You were the best dog that anyone could ask for.

You brought so much joy and life into our home and without you, there will be a void that you left behind. Your daddy and I will miss your curling up beside us at night. I will miss tripping over you with every step because you just wanted to be near your mommy at all times. Daddy is going to miss that wagging tail and hyper greet at the door when he comes in from work each day.

I could go on and on, but none of this will bring you back. I am glad that you won't have to suffer anymore, yes. But, this house will never be the same without your four little legs pouncing around in it.

If there are truly doggies in Heaven, go find Rakki & Charkie and please set up camp at the gates. You'll see us there before long.

We love you J.R.! Always and forever...

"Mommy"

I'm Gonna Miss This

2008-05-21T14:53:00.000-04:00

Please go here and watch this video... Then, come back.

Dear SnickelFritz (a.k.a. "E"),

This week has been so trying. It is only Wednesday and it has felt like the longest week. You have been one moody little girl the past few days.

I feel like I can't please you and it's been hard to keep you calm. Everyone has always mentioned the "terrible two's" and I have to admit that any mention of them quite frankly -scared me. Well, you will be 3, yes a "Big Gull!" in less than 3 weeks. The two's have really been a breeze. Nothing terrible about them I would say. Little mood swings here and there. But then again, you are a female and well, that comes natural, as you will find out.

However, the closer to the Big 3 that we get, you seem to act like you are going on 15. Now, I am shakin' in my boots.

I've wondered this week and said to myself and your daddy, "What's gotten into her?" I've been at the point of tears and not feeling like a strong mommy at all. Much less a good one. See, your cute lil' sassy mouth has begun to get the best of me at times. Okay I'll be honest...all of the time.
You are learning how far you can go with me; what buttons to push - and you not only push those buttons, you hold them down. If I ask something of you, you tend to do the opposite. If I tell you to grab your white shoes, you'll grab black. If I ask you to turn the t.v. off, you'll turn it up louder. Ya know, the normal things that you little one's learn to do.

Does it sound like mommy is complaining a bit? Well, I'm not...Just statin' the facts. You drive me silly sometimes, but that is life. At the same time, you bring so much joy and excitement to our world and I know that I will miss these days.

I have to take a moment during these difficult parenting times to remember that.

It hurts my heart to know that one day when you are heading out the front door to meet up with friends - I will close my eyes and wish I could go back to the days of arguing over which bow matches your outfit better or which cartoon I'll let you watch.

They're hard, but I'll take right now...right now.

I love you lil' butter bean and I'd honestly have you no other way.

It's THAT Time!!

2008-05-11T15:34:00.001-04:00

We are leaving momentarily for our CRUISE...Have I mentioned that we are taking a cruise lately?

Well, we are and I am...so EXCITED!!

Please pray for our safety and that we do well being away from E for a whole 6 days!

I will post as soon as I can when we return. Can't wait to share the pics!

Have a great week friends!

Don't Rush

2008-05-07T22:51:00.004-04:00

Well, it's been a few days huh? All 4 or 5 of you that check my blog (smile) must have been on your toes awaiting my next post. Right!

It's been an interesting week. I can't believe it's already Thursday. Did I mention we are going on a cruise? Oh and that we leave this weekend? Oh my goodness I am stoked!

So, the past few days...well, forget that...the past few months, I've been struggling off and on with just feeling overwhelmed. Some people would say, "With what?" since I don't work a "real" job. But, just with life and the things that come with it. I've constantly felt like I can't catch my breath and get a handle on my emotions, my worries, frustration. And it's begun to show. I catch myself aggravated so often and that is not what the Lord is pleased to see I know. And as I've said before, add a soon-to-be 3 year old to the mix and you've got a real situation. Nuff said?

I have heard of so many people dealing with depression, oppression, discouragement, feelings of failure, etc. lately that it is ridiculous. Some of these people you would never suspect it either. They hide it well. Then, the bottom falls out. People drop out of the choir at church, marriages are struggling, friends don't return phone calls, they just show up sporatically at church. I can't take it anymore! I've had it.

In the midst of all of our struggles, we tend to rush things. "God, why can't you hurry up and get me out of this mess?" "Hurry it up won't you!" "I've dealt with this long enough." "Gimme a break." I know I've been guilty of this.

I was reading my devotion today and it was talking about treading and trusting. Keep trusting in your Father and keep treading those waters, regardless of how troubled or rough they become. In that little devotion, I read such a powerful statement.

"To rush the process is to produce something of lesser value." Our lives are a collection of "processes" and as one ends, another process begins...better known as challenge or trial. There is so much value in our struggles. They occur for a profound purpose in our lives.

Here are a couple examples: If I put a frozen pizza in the oven for dinner and the instruction are to cook it for 14 minutes at 400 degrees. What will happen if I rush the process and cook it for 8 minutes? It will decrease in value because - ha - I won't be eating it. It won't be done.

If I rent a movie that I've been waiting to see and it is a full 2 hours long. I watch the first half and then get an invitation to go shopping, cut it off and return it on my way to meet a friend. How did it end? I rushed the process, decreased the value and I'll never find out. The money and time spent on it will mean nothing if I don't know the ending.

Oh here's a scary one: If I get up late in the morning and have to hurry to get out the door in time - I do only parts of my makeup and leave off all eye makeup and no lipstick. I rush the process and if you only saw how I would look - um yup...I would certainly decrease in value in your eyes. But, my girlfriends know that I would never leave like that right?

Get it by now? Sure you do. There is a purpose in a process. Say that 10 times fast. If you rush it and don't just tread and trust, some steps will indeed be missed and 1)You may not get to feast on the full blessings of God; 2) You may not find out how the ending was "supposed" to be; or 3) (like me w/o makeup) you may just find yourself in a scary situation.

I saw a quote today, "God won't give you more than you can handle. I just wish He didn't trust me so much."

He does trust you. He knows you can handle whatever process you are beginning or are already in. Keep treading those waters. They certainly will get rough. They may even suck you under here and there, but reach up your hand and hold onto His.

No need to rush things. He's by your side anyway.

Pomegranate

2008-05-03T09:44:00.006-04:00

This...would be our brand new scent for our Candle of the Month.

Pomegranate

"Everyone will love this sweet, fruity aroma of fresh pomegranate seeds. A perfect spring fragrance for every room in your home."

You can go here to request a free scent sample of this new scent to see what you think. Or, if you'd like to place an order, you can shop online and have it shipped directly to your door.

If you know anyone that may be interested in making money with these great candles, you can email their contact info. to me or send them my way. I would love to speak with them.

Wordless Wednesday

2008-04-30T12:16:00.003-04:00

This morning,

Introducing Jo-Jo to Jo-Jo.

This afternoon,

Toddler Talk

2008-04-29T21:55:00.006-04:00

This is going to be a hodge podge of stuff, but I just have to share some of the latest things from E's mouth.

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A couple of her newest words are "eider" (either) and "instead" - used at the most appropriate times. "I think I like dis one instead." or "I don't want eider one of doze."

Tonight, we were on the way to the mall to make an exchange and she was so excited to be going to "Jason's Pennies"...better known as "JC Penneys" to most.

And you can tell we shop way too much. She loves to conversate about going to AC Moore, Sears, Old Navy"s", Target"s" or Wal-"Motts". Just don't try and get her to say Bed, Bath & Beyond yet. That's almost too many B's for me.

She has had a tummy bug this week and the doctor's office said to keep her on a clear liquid diet and give her Gatorade, which she affectionately calls her "Alligator" drink.

As I am typing this, she is laying in bed fighting sleep and making silly, off-the-wall comments, such as, "You bwakin' my heart man. You know what I mean?" What in the world...Where did this come from?

...This is another that I just heard. I am sitting here in silence hoping she is falling asleep and out comes, "Hey, you betta be kiyet mommy. I twyin' to take a nap." "OOOOH! Man, I just bit my tum (tongue) again."

Last week, there was a preacher on t.v. and she was watching it while I was in the kitchen cooking dinner. I came around the corner and she had her hands raised, eyes closed and was pacing the floor saying, "Yes God. Holy Spiwitt. Yes God. Holy Spiwitt." J.R., our dog, got under her and she pushed him and said, "Go on Jee-ahr, I twyin' to pway heeah." Then, she looked up and said, "Uh mommy - Why you watchin' me?"

It's amazing how much they listen to the way we talk and word things.

She has decided that she likes to call us by name, but mostly me. "Miss Stacey" usually. Or - as if she is a teenager - "Mo-omm!!"...2 syllables.

I could go on and on since we are talking about my favorite subject. But, I'll save some stuff for a future post even though she gives us new material each hour it seems.

I tell you: Having an almost 3 year old around keeps you on your toes about what you watch, what you say, what attitude you choose to have, etc. They watch your every move. I mean, who else would they learn to emulate?

Oh Lord, help me do this thing right.

Menu Plan Monday

2008-04-28T16:41:00.009-04:00

So, I think this may be the first time...maybe second...that I've participated in this. Menu Plan Monday is hosted by Laura over at Organizing Junkie and it's a great way for us to share with you what our dinner plans are for the upcoming week.

Actually planning out my meal for anymore than 1 day in advance is a daunting task for me. I am the type that is frantically trying to decide on dinner when 4:00 rolls around. This is not my forte, but I'm gonna try and do better.

Let me just tell you too that when you do plan out your meals, you will find that not only is it less stressful in the long run, but you do, in turn, end up saving more money at the grocery store. Now, I am all about saving some money...

So here goes:

Monday: Dinner with my girlfriends...potluck style (bring hubby home a plate)
Tuesday: Island Jerk Chicken with grilled pineapple, Caesar Salad, Bread
Wednesday: Dinner at church...$5.00 for meat, 3 veggies, salad, roll, sweet tea, dessert & coffee
Thursday: Salisbury Steak & Gravy, Roasted Seasoned Potatoes, Garlic Green Beans
Friday: Cheesy Chicken & Rice Casserole

Some time this week, I'll find an opportunity to make this: Microwave Cherry Crisp. This would be perfect with a creamy cup of coffee & some great friends to share it with.

A Thought for Today

2008-04-28T09:15:00.005-04:00

I read this quote today and it stirred up some thought in my mind. Maybe it will do the same for you.

"Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you respond to it."

Man, just think of how much time we waste...

We've got winners

2008-04-25T22:35:00.006-04:00

Okay so WOW what an awesome turnout I had for both giveaways. I was amazed and tried my hardest to follow up with most of you. If I didn't follow up with you, then here's a big Thank You for stopping by and I welcome you to "visit" anytime!

Alright so:

Giveaway #1 ~ one bag of Mia Melts ~ goes to Lesha of The Bargain Shopper. Y'all check out this blog too...there's some great finds on here.

Giveaway #2 ~ one tube of Bella Balm lotion ~ goes to Julie of Nebraska. (no blog to link to)

It is certainly a delight of mine to give away such awesome products. I know you ladies are truly going to enjoy these. Congratulations to you both.

For any of you that are interested, you can order directly from my online store. Try out some of these amazing products for yourself.

Thanks again!

Thankful Thursday

2008-04-24T05:00:00.001-04:00

So, it's been quite a while since I've done one of these and I feel that it's time to list some things that I'm thankful for...from small things to big things.

1. I am thankful for the prayer time that we had at church lastnight. I was just about to slip out when the pastor's wife asked us to pray with each other. 35 minutes later, I was still there and so glad I chose to stay and be ministered to.

2. Thank You Lord for the boldness that you are developing inside of me to talk about You, share Your Word and pray for others. As I step out of my comfort zone, I can feel You leading me down the path You have chosen. Thank You for holding my hand as I follow.

3. I am thankful for the quiet in my home right now. That leads me to saying, "Thank You Lord" for the quiet in my life right now. We all have storms and my life is not free of them, but even in the storm, there is a quiet place. A place where our Father says, "Be still and know that I Am God." It's quiet now...and YES You Are!

4. Thank You Lord for Your nudging during last week's trials and Your gentle, but constant reminders of 2 Corinthians 12:9-10. "My grace is sufficient for You for My strength is made perfect in weakness." I saw you move greatly and now I am relying on that grace.

5. Lastly, I am so thankful that You, God, make all things new. No matter how horribly we mess up. We fail and we fail BIG time! We let each other down, but most importantly, we let You down repeatedly. You forgive. But then you go even further and forget. And You make us new. You let us start over. Time after time after time. Thank You Lord.